Please help with compatibility. I can't figure out my Scorpio

I've been with my Scorpio man 8 months.

We love each other very much and both want to build a life together. Recently we've been arguing a lot.

I've met his family, freinds & his kids. We spend a lot of time together and stay at each other's places. He's mentioned living together.

He's getting used to my bluntness, but he gets very annoyed and moody, if I snap at him.

He says I'm distant with him and I think he doesn't pay me enough attention, so I back off a bit. I treat people the way they treat me. I've been used to recieving compliments and feeling more wanted.

His last relationship ended because she cheated on him (2 years ago). I wonder if he's over it, but maybe I'm over analysing things. I want to feel special, but sometimes I feel like I'm just a substitute.

Being a Scorpio he can be quiet & secretive but he's opened up a lot. I reassure him and he says he trusts me but he never reasures me. Maybe he thinks i dont need it?

Being a Sagittarius, I'm very open and honest. Maybe he needs someone with more depth?

He's also tight with money. He told me he hid money from his ex. Should I trust him?

I'm usually good at reading people but with him its impossible and frustrating.

Could someone please look at our charts?

I need help understanding my guy.

Him

Sun- scorpio

Moon- virgo

Mercury- sagitarius

Venus- sagitarius

Mars- Leo

Jupiter- virgo

Saturn- virgo

Uranus- Scorpio

Neptune- sagitarius

Pluto- libra

Me

Sun- Sagitarius

Moon- Cancer

Mercury- Scorpio

Venus- Capricorn

Mars- Virgo

Jupiter- Virgo

Saturn- Virgo

Uranus- Scorpio

Neptune- Sagitarius

Pluto- Libra

Thanks in advance

You're practically the same....

In love he's willing to cross oceans for you...

He has a temper, and all-mighty attitude with the Leo Mars, just obey when he's in a foul mood! He'll respect you and calm down. Theres no other way, it's like the biggest bully on the block ...on acid...just let him be angry, listen and answer rationally.

Might be too analytical and lack spontaneity wi the Virgo moon, so try and fix the details so you can move on to other stuff. The sooner you fix the serious side of life, the faster you will have fun. Virgo moons can get caught up and stressed if bills arent paid, the car isnt fixed, the sink is leaking etc...they can't relax.

He says he's in love with me but I worry he's not over his ex. Should i trust him?

I suppose my cancer moon makes me needy.

Thank you so much for your reply Bricklemark. I really appreciate it.

Ha ha ha you are so right about his temper. He's a totally different person when he's angry.

It's his virgo moon clashing with your cancer moon.. my best friend is Sagittarius with cancer moon just like you and her most difficult relationship was with the same sun and moon as your boyfriend so it will be challenging but it's all about compromise. Just have to work on understanding each other's differences and it will work out better

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He says he's in love with me but I worry he's not over his ex. Should i trust him?

I suppose my cancer moon makes me needy.

Thank you so much for your reply Bricklemark. I really appreciate it.

Ha ha ha you are so right about his temper. He's a totally different person when he's angry.

Yeah maybe you're a bit too emotional, but that means he's more contained on his side, and he moght like the extra emotion, it can be something to build on ?