Pls help a confused crab (Gemini and Leo pls read)

You're asking for permission/validation to break up with a physically and emotionally abusive control freak?

Is this a joke? -_-


On the other hand, if it's real... you are asking US (a bunch of strangers) to TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, literally and point-blank.. so obviously, you do not feel comfortable making your own decisions and choices. Maybe you're better off staying with the Gemini who so openly controls you, it's at least comfortable and familiar to you and prevents you from having to make your own decisions and possibly make bad/wrong choices. Frees you from the responsibility of holding yourself accountable for your own life as well, so everything can always be someone else's fault and never yours.

:/

Get the gem out of your life and then take things slow with the Leo. Figure out yourself and what you want for a while, you need to heal. DONT feel guilty about the Gem he isn't a good person.

CCM- I'm a Gemini and this isn't a confusing situation. It only seems that way because you're IN IT and your emotions are all over the place. It's pretty straightforward for anyone on the outside looking in. You have to get away from the abusive Gem IMMEDIATELY, for the good of everyone involved. Don't worry about hurting the Gemini. He's not worried about hurting you, and it's time to put yourself first. Why are his feelings more important to you than yours? Get rid of him! After you get out of the situation, it would be helpful to get some therapy to get to the root of why you feel compelled to put yourself in dangerous and emotionally torturous situations rather than move to safe and loving ones.

Thanks all for taking your time to read this really long story and for giving me these kind advices. I think i should close my doors to Gemini and invite Leo in. Atleast i feel safe and secure in Leo's arms. I had enough of Gemini. I know there are nice Gemini out there as well. But the one im with is horrid and cruel! Ive decided to ask Gemini to move out 🙂 and start afresh with Leo. Whom appreciates whatever things i do for him. I CAN'T BELIEVE IVE BEEN SO blind for the past 2 and a half years. Thanks guys. I guess i've made my decision long ago. But would like to have some inputs before making this decision. You guys are right. 🙂 I should not be with someone abusive. Thanks loads! *Hugzs to yall✨

Good luck girl!!

And whatever you do try not to rush it with the Leo, be sure who your going to give your heart to.