Pls help, pisces fem in love with scorp male!

Ok, this is a long story, but I'll try and keep it brief. I originally met my male scorpio love of my life 3 and half yrs ago online. We talked for a while, then met, and it was love at 1st sight for both of us. V intense to start with, then basically he freaked out and ran, as couldn't deal with the strong emotions he had for me and visa versa. Then he came to surface again, and we began to see abit of each other. About a yr ago, he suddenly announces he's seeing an ex of his again that he works with (he's a senior nurse) and admitted this was to try to delfect his feelings for me. This woman is also a nurse and they share a boss. In between all of this, we have continued to see each other now and again and I have been fearless despite the fact that he's dragged me to hell and back along the way. Its as intense now as it ever was, have always known he loved me as I can sense it, feel it, and see it in his eyes, and on Monday (bear in mind that scorpios hardly ever admit to emotions and find it the hardest thing in world) said I love you, I miss you, I want you, and you know I have always loved you! When I asked why are you being so open, he said "coz I feel I owe it to you". The other girl found out about us, and he says he feels in difficult situation as he hates idea of his private life effecting his work (he's a v private person). Is this just an excuse in your opinion? Is he just keeping me dangling on a string, or does he in fact actually love me but coz of his star sign and the complicated stuff that comes with it, genuinly afraid of getting hurt? I have contantly challenged him, and I seem to read him pretty well, and that freaks him out, I know that. This is killing me, I love this man with all my heart, want to stand by him, but dont know how to play it next. Please can someone give me their honest opinion and advice, as Im desperate!!! I'm a pisces (27/2) and he's scorpio 2(05/11)

A couple things ran through my mind when I read this ..

First .. Scorpio's are insanely loyal to those who are loyal to them, and it seems odd to me that this amount of time would go by before he decided that he loved you. This sounds out of the ordinary to me. So, has something taken place in which he doubted his trust in your loyalty to him?

Second .. Scorpio's also obssess with a love interest, and again, this sounds of the ordinary to me .. that he would set you free, without being possessive and obsessing over you. This would lead me to believe that he isn't as much in love with you as he claims, rather, stringing you along .. however because of #3 ..

Third .. because Scorpio's are obsessive and possessive by nature, I have to then turn to you to see why he is behaving out-of-character for the typical Scorp .. for once they've set their aim on a person to whom they want, they go full-force toward that person. And, seeing that you are a Pisces, this makes me think that maybe you are too lenient with him. Pisces people tend to shrug off any kind of jealous behaviour, for they believe that a person should come to them because they have a desire for the Fish and Pisces don't normally fight with the mind-set of winning their partner over. This is just the way Pisces works.


So, from what I can assume from what you've posted .. it would appear to me that he might have the kind of love you want him to have for you, however, because you are passive about securing this love, and since he is by nature possessive .. it would appear as though by him telling you that there might be another love interest, he is in essence attempting to prompt you into becoming possessive of him. He's not acting like a typical Scorp, from how I observe them, yet, he is still hanging onto you .. and even going so far as to say he loves you this late in the game, and this is what leads me to believe that in his heart, he wants you to display to him that you pine-away for him.

There's an intensity inside the Scorpio, that from my perspective, appears to be driven by the desire to be passionately desired ..

.. think about that .. a driving force that longs to have the other show that they would walk to the ends of the earth for them. And if you are standing by, accepting that he will fall into anothers arms, then he might be processing this as you NOT desiring him the way he needs you to.

Hope that helps to understand better 🙂

I would have left him once he mentioned he was seeing his ex. Why didn't you? And I bet, if you told him that you were seeing someone else too, he wouldn't have stuck around either.