Relationship advice Libra guy Sag girl

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Librah
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So I'll try and keep it short as possible. She sent me a message back in 2016 saying she regretted not telling me how she really felt about me and that she was happy I found someone, had a beautiful family etc. What she didn't know was that my marriage was on the outs. I didn't respond, but she had been on my mind since I first read the message this past january. Fast forward to July I'm in my own place and within a week she caught word and sent me a message again and wanted to catch up. We did and I brought up the first message she sent me and told her I felt the same way. It felt like magic. Still does. Pretty intense emotionally, but we both know we can't take it further until my divorce is complete. We both have kids as well. We haven't been together since 2000 sans a brief hookup in 2009 when she told me she wasn't looking for a relationship. Any insights or advice is much appreciated.

Me

Libra sun

Libra moon

Scorpio venus

Leo mars

Scorpio mercury

Cancer rising

Her

Sagittarius sun

Capricorn moon

Capricorn venus

Aquarius mars

Capricorn mercury

No clue on rising sign
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eternalflame
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Wow, just created this account today.

Sag female here, and I'm def looking for insights on the Sag female Libra male situation from the Male perspective.

Libra guy in question is knowingly unhappily married, and wife cheated.

He's dropped hints for several years that he'd be open to exploring a relationship, but I wouldn't even consider thinking about that unless he was gonna leave her.

And by leave her, I mean divorce.

Got caught up in the "separation" situation once, and it didn't end well.

He went back to wife supposedly for sake of young son, but it made me realize that it's not over till it's OVER.

(and even then there's the Liz/Dick phenomenon)

You've got to tread very lightly with people newly exiting a relationship, especially if there was serious love there.

Sag women are too honest to play games and waste time with someone else's man.

For you, initial questions are.....

ARE you getting a divorce?

How long have you been married?

Why are you divorcing?

How old are you?
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Librah
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Posted by eternalflame
Wow, just created this account today.

Sag female here, and I'm def looking for insights on the Sag female Libra male situation from the Male perspective.

Libra guy in question is knowingly unhappily married, and wife cheated.

He's dropped hints for several years that he'd be open to exploring a relationship, but I wouldn't even consider thinking about that unless he was gonna leave her.

And by leave her, I mean divorce.

Got caught up in the "separation" situation once, and it didn't end well.

He went back to wife supposedly for sake of young son, but it made me realize that it's not over till it's OVER.

(and even then there's the Liz/Dick phenomenon)

You've got to tread very lightly with people newly exiting a relationship, especially if there was serious love there.

Sag women are too honest to play games and waste time with someone else's man.

For you, initial questions are.....

ARE you getting a divorce?

How long have you been married?

Why are you divorcing?

How old are you?
I'm filing next this month. I've been married 7 years. I'm divorcing for many reasons. Mostly because of infidelity and alcoholism of my ex. I'm 36.

I've been on the other side of a seperation relationship as well so get her reluctance to jump in head first. I was holding off filing until she got a job again (was fired from her last job) but I'm sick of waiting for her to get her self together. I need stability for my kids, myself, and this new relationship.

As for your situation go with your gut and don't explore anything until he at the very least leaves his wife. If you go by libra stereotypes he could be perpetually on the fence about leaving plus probably doesn't like being alone.

I can attest to the fact that I don't like being alone myself, but I chose to leave and did leave well before I got back with my sag girl and I was on the fence about leaving for 2-3 years. It was purely chance that she contacted me since I had no plans to contact her until my divorce was done.