Rinoa
@Rinoa
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Sagittarius bf cheated on me.. opinions please?
It doesn't matter if he will come back.
He cheated on you, then broke up with you. Why do you want someone who treated you like trash?
He didn't love you when he cheated and him walking away in the manner he did reaffirms that. I know you're hurt and maybe shocked at this point, I think when you're thinking clearer you will see what a favor he did you.
In the future don't ever consider taking a cheater back hun, it's not worth it. You're worth more than that.
He cheated on you, then broke up with you. Why do you want someone who treated you like trash?
He didn't love you when he cheated and him walking away in the manner he did reaffirms that. I know you're hurt and maybe shocked at this point, I think when you're thinking clearer you will see what a favor he did you.
In the future don't ever consider taking a cheater back hun, it's not worth it. You're worth more than that.
Posted by bkbella86It's a second one today. He cheated but I want him. And there were and will be another one soon.
It doesn't matter if he will come back.
He cheated on you, then broke up with you. Why do you want someone who treated you like trash?
He didn't love you when he cheated and him walking away in the manner he did reaffirms that. I know you're hurt and maybe shocked at this point, I think when you're thinking clearer you will see what a favor he did you.
In the future don't ever consider taking a cheater back hun, it's not worth it. You're worth more than that.
Women let men get away with anything!
Sad. Wrong. So men do whatever they want!
You hadn't met him face to face so is it really cheating...?
I mean it's kinda foolish to imagine yourself in a dedicated relationship with someone you've never seen face to face...regardless of how much time you've spend talking. Talking about moving in together are really just talk like everything else at this point.
Try to date people nearby. LDR don't really work unless you have an existing relationship prior.
I mean it's kinda foolish to imagine yourself in a dedicated relationship with someone you've never seen face to face...regardless of how much time you've spend talking. Talking about moving in together are really just talk like everything else at this point.
Try to date people nearby. LDR don't really work unless you have an existing relationship prior.
Posted by LadyNeptuneThis^.
You hadn't met him face to face so is it really cheating...?
I mean it's kinda foolish to imagine yourself in a dedicated relationship with someone you've never seen face to face...regardless of how much time you've spend talking. Talking about moving in together are really just talk like everything else at this point.
Try to date people nearby. LDR don't really work unless you have an existing relationship prior.
f...ing = facebooking. Not fu.king.
Posted by SaturnladyLOL
f...ing = facebooking. Not fu.king.
Just going to throw in the male perspective. Not to sound harsh, but whatever relationship you believed you had is over. Be happy you dodged a bullet and move on as fast as possible.
"I've been in a long distance relationship with a fellow sag..he's born dec 8, '89 and I am on dec 17, '86.. we havent seen in person until now, we just met on facebook..we've been in a relationship for exactly 4 months.. everything was going well before until this incident happened that opted him to break up with me.. we had plans of meeting and getting together supposed to be this upcoming August..and we are planning to live together soon after that"
This entire paragraph is littered with red flags. The biggest ones being that you've only been dating for 4 months, have never met in person (therefore can not account for any physical chemistry between you), but are already talking about moving in together soon after meeting for the FIRST time. Most people who choose to start dating long distance have generally met in the flesh. IF they haven't, then they typically take a LOT longer before talking about moving in together.
To be frank, you didn't give yourself enough time to get to know this guy. Know that people don't really start showing who they really are until after 90 days (3 months) into a relationship. This is because the human brain generally takes 3 months to get used to a new person, new patterns, etc. So it's safe to say the person you've been chatting with for 3 months wasn't 100% the genuine article. There were clearly other dormant character flaws that you are now emerging.
The real question is, why did you want to move this fast with someone you've never met? Also why would you want someone who cheated on you like this back? Your relationship was barely off of the ground. That should tell you something about his character. I encourage you to really look into this. From an outsider's perspective the foundation for this relationship seems shaky from the start.
"I've been in a long distance relationship with a fellow sag..he's born dec 8, '89 and I am on dec 17, '86.. we havent seen in person until now, we just met on facebook..we've been in a relationship for exactly 4 months.. everything was going well before until this incident happened that opted him to break up with me.. we had plans of meeting and getting together supposed to be this upcoming August..and we are planning to live together soon after that"
This entire paragraph is littered with red flags. The biggest ones being that you've only been dating for 4 months, have never met in person (therefore can not account for any physical chemistry between you), but are already talking about moving in together soon after meeting for the FIRST time. Most people who choose to start dating long distance have generally met in the flesh. IF they haven't, then they typically take a LOT longer before talking about moving in together.
To be frank, you didn't give yourself enough time to get to know this guy. Know that people don't really start showing who they really are until after 90 days (3 months) into a relationship. This is because the human brain generally takes 3 months to get used to a new person, new patterns, etc. So it's safe to say the person you've been chatting with for 3 months wasn't 100% the genuine article. There were clearly other dormant character flaws that you are now emerging.
The real question is, why did you want to move this fast with someone you've never met? Also why would you want someone who cheated on you like this back? Your relationship was barely off of the ground. That should tell you something about his character. I encourage you to really look into this. From an outsider's perspective the foundation for this relationship seems shaky from the start.
Posted by bkbella86
It doesn't matter if he will come back.
He cheated on you, then broke up with you. Why do you want someone who treated you like trash?
Posted by LadyNeptuneThanks for the cliff notes ladies.
You hadn't met him face to face so is it really cheating...?click to expand
+1 to what they wrote.
Posted by Rinoa
I am on dec 17, '86..
... we had plans of meeting and getting together supposed to be this upcoming August..and we are planning to live together soon after that..
Are you some kind of joke?
You're actually 30 years old and this dumb?
Dude, if you're going to be this ridiculously stupid then you probably deserve to be used, and then tossed aside. Seriously, not trying to hurt your feelings .. but, be real here.
You're 30 years old and STILL this fucking blind?
Posted by Rinoa
do you still think he will come back? I even told him I can forget everything that happened just for him not to break up with me..click to expand
what the fuck?
You actually told him that you would forget what he did, "just for him" if he didn't break up with you?
What the hell has happened to people? Why are the de-evolving back into ignoramuses?
I can't pity a person like you. You bring this all on yourself by refusing to use sound judgment and practical senses.
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do you still think he will come back? I even told him I can forget everything that happened just for him not to break up with me.. but still he did.. sometimes I feel like he doesnt really loved me at all, just leaving me like this..?? but when I think back of all the times he spent with me, all the long night convos..he did love me..