Hi everyone. I've recently started to date this guy. He's 30, lots of experience.. I'm 2 years younger, and not so experienced. He knows it. The thing is I stressed that I'm very reserved emotionaly, and that "I'm slow". And not ready to get intimate too soon. He's not objecting, but I feel he will be soon cause he says I kiss way too passionatley 🙂 I had no idea... 😉 How we "met": we chatted for 2 weeks, met once briefly... but he kept the chat weeks after that and then I went on a date with him... we sort of kissed on 2nd.. but I really felt like we're a couple on the 4th. He started to call me "girlfriend" the second after we kissed. And now, like 2 weeks of dating (he calls, texts all the time... I told him not to bother me like 10 times a day... too much for me) he stated that i need to think about this: what if he's already emotionally involved (with me)? It freaked me out... Is this like normal behaviour ( he has mars in capricorn) because of the fire sign and scorp influence? my venus is in cap by the way, hence, the emotional reservation 😢
thanks 🙂 i wish i could be as assertive as he is... but i feel blocked. he's not pushing me, but i get angry with myself that i'm holding back. that's the way i am....
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The thing is I stressed that I'm very reserved emotionaly, and that "I'm slow". And not ready to get intimate too soon. He's not objecting, but I feel he will be soon cause he says I kiss way too passionatley 🙂 I had no idea... 😉
How we "met": we chatted for 2 weeks, met once briefly... but he kept the chat weeks after that and then I went on a date with him... we sort of kissed on 2nd.. but I really felt like we're a couple on the 4th. He started to call me "girlfriend" the second after we kissed.
And now, like 2 weeks of dating (he calls, texts all the time... I told him not to bother me like 10 times a day... too much for me) he stated that i need to think about this: what if he's already emotionally involved (with me)?
It freaked me out...
Is this like normal behaviour ( he has mars in capricorn) because of the fire sign and scorp influence?
my venus is in cap by the way, hence, the emotional reservation 😢