Sagittarius woman & Scorpio man

I would like some advice on what I should do to win the heart of a Scorpio man I have been seeing for a little over two months. I am a 21 yr old Sagittarius woman and i met a 26 yr old Scorpio man off a dating website sometime in August. We instantly hit off and were communicating everyday after the first date, at first i didn't know if i liked this man but i kept seeing him and now i have developed strong feelings for him, and he at no point hid the fact that he has depression but recently has said that it has made him recluse and absent.. He apologized for this and he would ignore me for one or two days but always keep in contact. We didn't see each other for three weeks because he was on tour with his band but he saw me when he got back and i noticed a major shift in his depression and overall motivation, he has introduced me to his parents and his friends a week ago. I was going to introduce him to my parents this past weekend and he seemed to not be excited so i cancelled. He then told me that he doesn't know we should talk anymore because he can't be in a relationship right now. When i asked why he told me that he isn't over how is last relationship ended. He also added that it has nothing to do with not being interested in me and he said he thinks I'm wonderful. All said was "Well if you and I could start over in a while, when you're in a better state of mind, i am open to it. Because i think everyone deserves a second chance." He replied to me, "Thank you Malissa". I am so confused because he has confessed a few times that he really likes me, we have held off on sex, and he gives me "the look" that Scorpio men have when they're into you. I never replied to his message because I don't know if i should even try to reach out.

Just a little background, this guy said he hasn't been intrigued by anyone on the dating website and claims I'm the first he has dated in months. After telling me he can't have a relationship at the moment i asked if I would see him again and he said "I never said never.." he even deleted his POF account, which to me means he was being completely honest with me. He was dumped by his ex last December whom he was engaged too. He says he is over her but not the way it ended. I always drove to him, but he would give me breakfast in bed and cook dinner for me. He comes off as super sensitive, sweet, and extremely affectionate. I was in a long-term relationship with a Scorpio man that lasted over two years and i crave the intensity and connection i shared with him, which is why I want a Scorpio man. Should I back off and ignore him to win his heart or just forget about him and move on all together?

Posted by Imarollin
My opinion is no.

He said he had hang ups about his ex. That's a sign that you did not replace her.

Maybe time heals but I live in a land of absolutes and he absolutely isn't making any decisions with his current situation involving you.

Update:
I recently talked with him after four weeks of him not talking to me, He just said "I'm sorry I can't be in a relationship right now because I'm terrified to open up and let someone in again. I always get hurt and that's not fair to you and I'm sorry." I asked to be friends and he replied, "Of course we can, i think you're a wonderful girl. I never deleted your number." It's been a few days since i that conversation, he then got on my social media and liked a few pictures of me. I feel like he is testing me or just really indecisive in his feelings towards me... I have been seeing someone else now.