I've been to numerous sites on how to get my ex back & they all seem to point me in different directions. Anywho, I'll explain my situation. The girl I was dating I met when I was 19 we've known each other since she was 16 & recently started dating this past year. She used to fool around with my ex best friend before we started dating (reason why me & him aren't friends because he felt like I chose her over him but he already was treating me different beforehand) We were together for about 6 months before we broke up. Long story short she tried to stay in contact with me after the break up but I couldn't handle it. So she blocked me on everything for about a week. Then she messaged me on Facebook which led to us getting back together in a few short weeks. Anywho I decided I was gonna move back home for school & she was gonna do the same & we told each other that the distance is going to be a test of our love. Since the move the move things have been rocky. We got into an argument over her liking a guys picture on Instagram which led to me getting upset & confronting her about it. Since then I reconciled with her & she said its best to stay friends because anything else is to hard. Which I blindly agreed to. Recently she's been displaying hot & cold behavior. She told me that she cares for me that I'm the only man to really love her over I truly showed her what a real mans love is like & I'm still her first love. But what threw me off is when she said she doesn't know if I love her or where my heads at. Again, I just want some advice. It'd mean the world to me. Because I really love this girl.
She's a Taurus & I'm a Virgo.

Do you met her when she was 16 and you were 19, strike one she was underage and child like. Strike 2 she shoes unloyalty by messing with your ex bestfriend & you guys are no longer friends. Sigh I swear Virgos always trying to save people and pick the worst people to "fall" in love with.
She is a thot and your relationship has no foundation or honesty so it will never work. Find a mature girl. Stop picking girls with character flaws work on yours first and find you a good girl.
Good luck.
She is a thot and your relationship has no foundation or honesty so it will never work. Find a mature girl. Stop picking girls with character flaws work on yours first and find you a good girl.
Good luck.

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Sorry I'm on my iPhone typing way too fast 🙂
Sorry I'm on my iPhone typing way too fast 🙂
Posted by Octoberbaby91
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Sorry I'm on my iPhone typing way too fast 🙂
We were Friends & it never went any further then that.
& my homie at the time knew I liked her & smashed anyway. While we were together he kept asking about her but to other people not me. Then when they stopped talking before we did he started acting shady towards to me. Acting jealous.

He smashed? Sweetie if it was that easy then why you want it? I thought you guys like women with morals.
They both hold no loyalty to you the two of them were only a season in your life let it go.
They both hold no loyalty to you the two of them were only a season in your life let it go.
Thank you for the advice. Don't have time for games anyway.
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