@beelibra
13 Years
Should I ask him WHAT we are?? Need your opinion?
2 months isnt a very long time. I dont think its the right time to ask.
yea you prolly should if you dont wanna wait around but be prepared for any answer.
Has he expressed any desires of being in a committed relationship with you?
Haven't you asked about this guy like 3 times already in regard to what you two are? Do something about it already.
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So I have been exclusively talking to this guy that I met for 2 months now. We move pretty fast, we've had sex, sleepovers, I've met his family, and we talk everyday. We support each other, and it pretty much seems like we're in a relationship. I do have a 2 year old daughter, and I don't know if this makes him feel like he doesn't know how to approach asking me out. I would like to be in a committed relationship with him, we have gotten to know each other a lot and I only see things moving forward. I have learned that he has trust issues, and I've shown him he has nothing to worry about, and he has apologized and told me that his trust issues won't happen again and that it's not okay. So we are like I said moving forward. I was talking to my sister in law, and she was telling me that she ask my brother after they had spent the night together, so what are we? Because I don't hook up and have sleepovers with friends? And then he asked her to be his girlfriend. I'm thinking maybe I made the mistake by not doing this in the first place? I know he likes me, he gets jealous and is paranoid I'm talking to other people. If we were in a relationship there wouldn't be much to worry about. I'm not in a rush so please don't go on a rant talking about that with me, I know how things feel right now between us and yes a little more time with her, but it also wouldn't make much of a difference. So question being, should I ask in the? Or maybe in a different way? He's not very expressive with his emotions and feelings verbally or physically, so I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable. But I also don't want to let him think he can have his cake and eat it too. I know I'm a good catch, and I won't be waiting forever... Thanks guys!
PS] Hes a Capricorn and Im a Libra.