This may be long, but I just do not understand!!!!! First I'm a Gemini and he's a Cancer. Our history is that I dated his best friend and during that time he admitted to loving me. I couldn't break up with his friend so the next day he got with this other girl. He told her for months how he had these feelings for me. His best friend and I ended up living with him and her for 3 months. He started hating on me. He'd be mean and ignore me and all of this crap till eventually he stopped talking to me all together. He didn't talk to me for over 6 months. He was with a new girl and lived with her and was apparently engaged to her. He ended up going to jail for a month on some bull crap charges. She apparently cheated on him so he left her once he got out. He then hit me up randomly and I was so happy!!!! He told me how sorry he was for being mean to me but he couldn't be around me because his feelings weren't going away and I was with someone else so it was just easier to push me away. I forgave him and we chilled one day. That day was crazy insane. It was like all the old feelings for each other came back instantly. We couldn't keep our hands off of each other. So we started dating and as he would say "FINALLY. ITS ABOUT TIME." Haha, things were great!! Every day together for a week. No problems. No arguements. Slept in the same bed. Cuddles. Kissed. Read each others minds. Had some real good conversations. We didn't have to talk. We could just look at each other and smile. I hadn't seen him that happy in over a year!!! It was so amazing. (continued)
Should I let my Cancer man go again or wait?
Well, the first night I finally went out with my friends in a week I got drunk. Came back to his house and started drinking more. Apparently this was bad even though he drank with me a few days before. I said something wrong that made him start thinking and he dumped me the next day. He wouldn't tell me what I said. He said it didn't matter. He hugged me and kissed me and told me he didnt hate me. I was so confused. I was like WHAT? YOUR LEAVING AGAIN? I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT I DID! And I still don't know. But as soon as I left he started talking crap about me online. Things about my past mistakes while he was gone. I was like really? He hasn't talked to me since then. He's apparently hanging with his ex fiance again. Even though he told me that he would never go back to her and that he never looked at her the way that he looked at me. Which I totally believe because it was really intense. He was back in my life for a week!!!! Thats it. I wrote him and told him how sorry I was for whatever I had said and I told him how much I cared about him and Id be there for him. No responce. I have no idea what to do. Should I just wait it out and see if he contacts me randomly again? Cause I mean it really perfect. Or should I just let it go? I don't know what to do.
Heres some pictures of us to show you how awesome it was....
http://tinypic.com/r/2le7a82/6 (first day together)
http://tinypic.com/r/1ha2ih/6<BR>
http://tinypic.com/r/14xh4yf/6
Heres some pictures of us to show you how awesome it was....
http://tinypic.com/r/2le7a82/6 (first day together)
http://tinypic.com/r/1ha2ih/6<BR>
http://tinypic.com/r/14xh4yf/6

It lasted a week together, clearly it wasn't perfect. He had unresolved issues/feelings for his ex-fiancee, and better it came up now after only a week, rather than later, when you were much, much more emotionally invested. I feel for your pain, but moving on is for the best. But I doubt you'll listen... a woman scorned rarely listens to reason *sigh*
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