Silly Virgo boy

Ofcourse he is doing the push pull thing. It's driving me crazy. We've been talking for about a year now with our longest break being 3months. Just recently he has told me he loves me. But only like twice in the last 2 and a half months. I love this guy so much just wish he'd be around more and stay around not push/pull. Yes he is busy with work, coaching and his kids on the weekends. In a way I feel like he wants to be with me but then when he pulls and leaving me hanging for a week or two I dont know what to think.How can I get him to be more consisdent.

My chart
Sun- Virgo
Moon-Virgo
Mercury- Libra
Venus-Libra
Mars-Virgo

His Chart
Sun- Virgo
Moon- Pisces
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Leo
Mars- Scorpio

You can't. You can't change someone. He's going to have to make the effort into being more consistent with you. Maybe you can bring it up to him & discuss it, but don't seem like you're giving him the 3rd degree & don't nag him about it.

If he knows it bothers you HE will compromise, but you can't make him do it.

I know I can't make him. But I know be a virgo myself we are scared to go all in. It seems like when we have deep meaningful conversations he disappers. He told me himself he is scared. I just need to figure out a way to let him know I'm not going to hurt him and I'll be there for him. no matter what. But I get scared of opening up and showing how much he means to me. Because of the fact once again being scared of what he will say or do.

As of right now he is pulling away again. Not responding. Kinda hurts. He spent the night with me for the first time 2 days ago and has only texted me twice. Ugh this guy is confusing.

Posted by virgox2blouowe
As of right now he is pulling away again. Not responding. Kinda hurts. He spent the night with me for the first time 2 days ago and has only texted me twice. Ugh this guy is confusing.

I don't understand what the problem is? He texts you twice, ok and? What's so confusing?