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Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
Posted by Noni05I am kind...when I am sober! LolPosted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
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Posted by Noni05Love is cruel! I love him! I was told by my Scorp to tell my Cap I leaving him 2 years ago. I was rehearsing...Posted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
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I couldn't! I had never said to my Scorp I did or I didn't...he never asked because I know he knew what was happening!
He lives the same life. He understand.
It's me who has to call shots! And I can't! Yet anyway...
Posted by nanobyteHe fixes toilet...
gemitati, you told your husband that you have a man? other than him, obviously.
how did he respond?
I'm beginning to get a clearer picture.
Posted by Gemitati😄Posted by nanobyteHe fixes toilet...
gemitati, you told your husband that you have a man? other than him, obviously.
how did he respond?
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Posted by Noni05I'll get back to you on that when you married for 23 years to am person who fix toilet after you treat to divorce them.Posted by GemitatiWhy do you hurt someone that you lovePosted by Noni05Love is cruel! I love him! I was told by my Scorp to tell my Cap I leaving him 2 years ago. I was rehearsing...Posted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
I couldn't! I had never said to my Scorp I did or I didn't...he never asked because I know he knew what was happening!
He lives the same life. He understand.
It's me who has to call shots! And I can't! Yet anyway...
Why don't you try to fix things instead by methods like marriage counseling
Why are you cruel to a man who has been by your side so many years the father of your children
When you love a person you don't try to hurt them you try to love respect and make them happy on a daily basis if he or she doesn't provide what you need, you walk away but you don't stay to hurt them you don't rub in their face their faults you don't try to make them feel worthless, love is respect love is commitment love is acceptance love is working every day to make things better love is not hurting them
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Posted by Noni05Honey! I was the man in a family for 23 years!Posted by GemitatiAlcohol might make you feel brave but that's no excuse to be cruel to the human who has been by yourside who is the father of your children.Posted by Noni05I am kind...when I am sober! LolPosted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
Have you placed your self in his shoes
What if you were the woman who stayed home and he called you lazy worthless and he was cheating and about to leave you and you didn't have the confidence to find another partner and he was cruel to you with these words what if you stood by his side loyal and he did this to you.. it would probably break your heart. Would you dare to say he loved you after him doing such things, I'd say no you would see thing differently but since it's the other way around it doesn't seem to affect you. I feel very sad about the situation it's not a joke it's a family and it's a man who can end up alone and heartbroken it's a man who will cry for his wife and probably end up alone feeling so worthless, i don't know you in person but it breaks my heart because coming here to vent and laugh at him is not funny honey this man is a human who also has feelings. He's still your spouse. Spouses deserve respect because in the end this is the man you chose to spend your life with.click to expand
Now i am 50 and I want to be a woman!
Haven't I deserve it?
If it wasn't for my Scorp - they can burry me in taxido! Lol
Posted by Noni05You've got me here! Seriously!Posted by GemitatiIf you were unhappy why did you stay by his side 23yrs why did you wait until you were 50, why didn't you grow old with this man ? Why didn't you set him free when you realized he wasn't the man for you ..? I'm curious to know why you waited so long —Posted by Noni05Honey! I was the man in a family for 23 years!Posted by GemitatiAlcohol might make you feel brave but that's no excuse to be cruel to the human who has been by yourside who is the father of your children.Posted by Noni05I am kind...when I am sober! LolPosted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
Have you placed your self in his shoes
What if you were the woman who stayed home and he called you lazy worthless and he was cheating and about to leave you and you didn't have the confidence to find another partner and he was cruel to you with these words what if you stood by his side loyal and he did this to you.. it would probably break your heart. Would you dare to say he loved you after him doing such things, I'd say no you would see thing differently but since it's the other way around it doesn't seem to affect you. I feel very sad about the situation it's not a joke it's a family and it's a man who can end up alone and heartbroken it's a man who will cry for his wife and probably end up alone feeling so worthless, i don't know you in person but it breaks my heart because coming here to vent and laugh at him is not funny honey this man is a human who also has feelings. He's still your spouse. Spouses deserve respect because in the end this is the man you chose to spend your life with.
Now i am 50 and I want to be a woman!
Haven't I deserve it?
If it wasn't for my Scorp - they can burry me in taxido! Lol
You could have separated or filed for divorce
Found a man a long time ago
And felt satisfied many years back
If you felt that you deserved this passion why did you wait so long ? Is it because now your sure you have a partner to fall back on and you no longer think you'll be alone if you leave your spouse ?? Is the answer that back then the right man wasn't in the picture ??!
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People meet. Takes time. His mother was dying. I loved him and her and was pregnant when she died. Got child. Tried my mom to get over here. Took time. Bought house. I went to school for IT.
Took 2 years getting graduated and get job!
Life was going on...
All and all economy collapsed. We both lost jobs (he quit by choice)
Opened our own business. Day first saw my Scorpio and died...
Husband was already in his TV drinking and never wanted to do nothing but...movies and drinking..
I was fine with that until I've met a man who is totally opposite!
Ive hurt my leg over month ago and my dear spouse never asked me how am I doing when my Scorp asking me daily about it and giving me tips what to do.
I am feeling at home as a chair to sit
On!
My Scorps paying $ 400
For 5 star hotel to see me for an hour!
Confusing enough? It's just a piece of info.
That's why I got hummered and went all out about!
Posted by Noni05I'll get back to you. PromisePosted by GemitatiSo you opened a businessPosted by Noni05You've got me here! Seriously!Posted by GemitatiIf you were unhappy why did you stay by his side 23yrs why did you wait until you were 50, why didn't you grow old with this man ? Why didn't you set him free when you realized he wasn't the man for you ..? I'm curious to know why you waited so long —Posted by Noni05Honey! I was the man in a family for 23 years!Posted by GemitatiAlcohol might make you feel brave but that's no excuse to be cruel to the human who has been by yourside who is the father of your children.Posted by Noni05I am kind...when I am sober! LolPosted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
Have you placed your self in his shoes
What if you were the woman who stayed home and he called you lazy worthless and he was cheating and about to leave you and you didn't have the confidence to find another partner and he was cruel to you with these words what if you stood by his side loyal and he did this to you.. it would probably break your heart. Would you dare to say he loved you after him doing such things, I'd say no you would see thing differently but since it's the other way around it doesn't seem to affect you. I feel very sad about the situation it's not a joke it's a family and it's a man who can end up alone and heartbroken it's a man who will cry for his wife and probably end up alone feeling so worthless, i don't know you in person but it breaks my heart because coming here to vent and laugh at him is not funny honey this man is a human who also has feelings. He's still your spouse. Spouses deserve respect because in the end this is the man you chose to spend your life with.
Now i am 50 and I want to be a woman!
Haven't I deserve it?
If it wasn't for my Scorp - they can burry me in taxido! Lol
You could have separated or filed for divorce
Found a man a long time ago
And felt satisfied many years back
If you felt that you deserved this passion why did you wait so long ? Is it because now your sure you have a partner to fall back on and you no longer think you'll be alone if you leave your spouse ?? Is the answer that back then the right man wasn't in the picture ??!
People meet. Takes time. His mother was dying. I loved him and her and was pregnant when she died. Got child. Tried my mom to get over here. Took time. Bought house. I went to school for IT.
Took 2 years getting graduated and get job!
Life was going on...
All and all economy collapsed. We both lost jobs (he quit by choice)
Opened our own business. Day first saw my Scorpio and died...
Husband was already in his TV drinking and never wanted to do nothing but...movies and drinking..
I was fine with that until I've met a man who is totally opposite!
Ive hurt my leg over month ago and my dear spouse never asked me how am I doing when my Scorp asking me daily about it and giving me tips what to do.
I am feeling at home as a chair to sit
On!
My Scorps paying $ 400
For 5 star hotel to see me for an hour!
Confusing enough? It's just a piece of info.
That's why I got hummered and went all out about!
You met the Scorpio
Your spouse Capricorn was going through depression and went into lazy mode
You didn't leave your spouse at this time even though you knew it wasn't working out ... why ?!!
So then to make things more complicated
You became intimate with mr. Scorp and started comparing both men one who did nothing right and the other who was perfect in your eyes but spent 1hr of his time in a hotel with you, I'm sure he spends more time correct because men will invest all of most of their day to the woman they love there's no 50/50 when in love even if there's a wife in the picture.
Okay so now things are complicated your still unhappy complaining about your spouse and you still won't leave him. Why?!!! Why not sit him down, like the grown folks that you both are, Calmy explain your side to him, you met a man and unfortunately you think it's love and you would like to build a life wit him and you would like to say good bye to your spouse and hope that he will find a good woman to continue to grow old by his side, love and be supportive to him because obviously he needs a lot of emotional support. Mention that him drinking and not working hasn't helped the situation and that you're unhappy and all you wish to do is find your happiness.
But what if by the time you leave your spouse the Scorpio decides he can no longer leave his wife due to many reasons like family children feelings and other things... are you willing to be single again without the Scorpio and without the Capricorn?
50 is no joke to start over alone ... 50 is to reminisce about all the years together about continuing to grow old and continue to surpass all obstacles if counseling will resolve the down falls then agreeing to give it one last shot to being happy again but if you love your Capricorn, counseling communication can resolve issues and make you try again, change for each other, become intimate, work harder, respect, love, talk, it can build a stronger relationship. You need to be honest with him he deserves it. Don't hurt the man who gave his life to you, don't clown him online. Give him the respect he deserves as your husband. This is your man! Let him make you proud again if you really love him! re enlight your marriage and be loyal to the 1 man you choose to Spend the rest of your days with.click to expand
Posted by Gemitati— lmao at Noni's comment.Posted by Noni05I am kind...when I am sober! LolPosted by GemitatiI still think you shouldn't be cruel to him, just walk away if you no longer love the man but don't hurt him, words are painful to Capricorn especially to a spouse. Be kind.Posted by Noni05Poor? He was catered to for 23 years!
I can't help but feel bad for that poor Capricorn man ! ?
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They like to be told these things!!!! they like women who stand up for themselves.
Reminded me of a day (of many) when I went off on my Cap for not doing so many things, he was also being lazy and taking the free time to be with his buddies. One day he told me "It's not in my nature to help, I don't feel like I want to help you around the house or be with you" ..I said "you think I enjoy cleaning? Cooking, Going to school, working? the only thing I enjoy is taking care of the kids and spending time with my family (him and kids) and you're never here, you don't need a wife or family...I said I think we should get help.. (couple therapy, family counseling) he said F that. I don't need it..blah blah..months later I broke up with him and divorced him.
Then he was crying, and begging for me to take him back. I never did.
This is why pointless arguments lead to this kinda mess, just talk about giving your daughter a proper graduation party-like try to convince him on what to do about it, not jump into a fight. He will come around eventually lol. You gotta be extremely patient with Caps, whether you like it or not.
Not to judge you but if you are seeing someone else then you should end either your marriage or stop being with the other person.
Even if the other person is in the same situation it doesn't change anything.
at the end of my marriage when I had already broken up with cap, I was seeing someone else. I couldn't tell cap but found a way for him to find out and I just had to give him some sort of explanation . It wasn't cheating as we werent together anymore but we lived in the same house.
The best thing I did was to end both relationships and Learn to be MYSELF FIRST.
Then, I learned what type of woman I am, what I want and what I deserve.
Since then I've dated a few guys only to realize they aren't what I'm looking for, but no rush...since I want someone to love me as I am.
Even if the other person is in the same situation it doesn't change anything.
at the end of my marriage when I had already broken up with cap, I was seeing someone else. I couldn't tell cap but found a way for him to find out and I just had to give him some sort of explanation . It wasn't cheating as we werent together anymore but we lived in the same house.
The best thing I did was to end both relationships and Learn to be MYSELF FIRST.
Then, I learned what type of woman I am, what I want and what I deserve.
Since then I've dated a few guys only to realize they aren't what I'm looking for, but no rush...since I want someone to love me as I am.
Posted by GruntysLairCap men are disgusting.
This is why pointless arguments lead to this kinda mess, just talk about giving your daughter a proper graduation party-like try to convince him on what to do about it, not jump into a fight. He will come around eventually lol. You gotta be extremely patient with Caps, whether you like it or not.
Posted by bkbella86Care to share? LolPosted by GruntysLairCap men are disgusting.
This is why pointless arguments lead to this kinda mess, just talk about giving your daughter a proper graduation party-like try to convince him on what to do about it, not jump into a fight. He will come around eventually lol. You gotta be extremely patient with Caps, whether you like it or not.click to expand
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So he is afraid to be left alone?
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Lol
Just saying...just wondering if o mentioned my Scorp...mom wasn't there from beginning so she can't tell...
Shit! I hope I didn't! lol