Taurus with a confusing gemini ex

sorry for the length...A lil background. Ima taurus male and we talking bout my gemini ex who is still in my life. I feel i am in love with this girl, we tried it once but she wasnt over her ex after a little less than 2 months of dating. she was basically my best friend since we met back in 2005. i tried to cut it off but she doesnt want to let me go...and i honestly just enjoy bieng in her presence and i know she enjoys mine. As a taurus i find it hard to disguise my feelings because we are naturaly affectionate. its hard to take her actions as serious because of the flirty aspect of this sign. Although she doesnt flirt with other men and the things we do are only done with me,to my knowledge. when we broke up she told me she didnt want to open a new door with me before closing an old one. i can appreciate this,but i think i shot myself in the foot by remaining in touch with her and not just letting it completly go. recently bout a month ago...i brought up the topic of wat i was to her, she called me a friend, so i ended contact(Again) i guess it was a reality check to her cause she then(the next day)pulled out a text message i sent her literally a year ago and sent it to me. ever since that day, she hit me up everydday, everytime i signed online. like the knowing that i could have been gone from her life brought her so much closer, she has asked me to be her valentine but i asked out, not even saying the word date an she says "yea, but its not a date," like i absolutley cannot even assume it...wtf is going on with this girl?lol i dont take the valentine to heart or should it?i have planned a weekend getaway at a B&B. dont kno if she`ll be uncomfortable sharin a bed with mem, even though she has spent the night at my house sleeping up under my arm on my couch...What am i to do?what does it mean? any insight is greatly appreciated.

I'm a gem and i completely understand where you are coming from. I too have a guy in my life and he is a Capricorn,and your relationship sounds the same to me. The problem with us is that we have a hard time making up our minds. I think she likes you but maybe not in the way you feel about here. The part about her saying that you two are just friends sounds familiar. I tell the guy in my life that all the time but he doesn't get it and I mean it.when he stops calling I get scared that I will lose him in my life as a friend,so I contact him. He makes me comfortable in the sense that we can cuddle and get really close, which doesn't happen often with ppl, and i want him in my life. But the thing is I want him as a friend. If he would just accept it for that who knows what the future may hold. So essentially what I am saying is that she wants you in her life for sure. Us gems have no problem getting rid of someone lol. She is probably very comfortable with you ,and u must be a sweet guy but she may not be ready to be in a relationship. That is prob the reason why she keeps pulling back.
Anyway don't force it. Take it for what it is. we like a bit of a chase. when and if she is ever ready she will come to you and you will know. It might be to late by than but that's something we have to learn the hard way. As for the trip I don't think it would be a good idea to get a single room. It will feel like you are forcing her. I woulds suggest that you get separate rooms. I'm pretty sure she will end up in your room by the end of the night maybe just to cuddle but let her make that choice. I think should try just being her FRIEND. I know it's hard when you have feeling but try. Tell that and see what happens. you might be surprised. I wish my guy would get it. than maybe he would have a chance. who knows. I know it long sorry lol