Venting AGAIN!

I just need to vent about the Scorp again - He is so frustrating! His moods switch at the drop of a pin and he acts like a child! He will snuggle and laugh with me one minute and then be reminded of a trial in his life and sulk and lash out! I know they say you hurt the ones you love the most, but he's being ridiculous! He lets his mood dictate what he feels about us and the status of our relationship and that's just wrong. This push pull thing is annoying. When does it end!?! It's been a year and while I am my own person, I have also stood by him. Grrr.

It's time to take a stand for yourself. It wont stop as long as he has those fleeting thoughts, or gets it through his head you love him but enough is enough. Stand tall, and walk straight. Show him you mean it. No one is perfect, but the constant feeling of never knowing when it's going to blow up is draining. Been there done that. ((hugs))

Thanks Ocean - you have always been good to me! I think that he's taking things for granted, probably because I have been too understanding of his issues. This has happened in the past, he takes a few days, and then he's all settled again, and comes to me with a clear heart and head and will clearly apologize in detail for what he's done. It does need to stop though. I think that with any relationship, people handle stress differently, and it's a learning experience every step of the way, and since February, we have come MILES. But I think he needs to remember who I am. And why he fell in love with me to begin with. I have never begrudged him his space or time alone. But he doesn't TAKE IT until things get to be too much and he blows up. I will start creating the space for him.