Virgo guy Just not that into me?

So the situation is this....I used to see this guy...very casually. Hanging out here and there. He introduced me to his friends but there was one of this friends that stood out to me like he had a glow. I've wanted him ever since.

I stopped seeing the guy and we remained friends. There was just never any chemistry. I think he was a bit of a ladies man...

So about 6 months later...I end up becoming "facebook" friends with his friend...the guy with the glow lol.
We had back and fourth facebook message conversations starting a few months ago.
Our first conversation was friendly and innocent but then he stopped responding. Our second conversation was slightly flirtatious, I told him I thougth he was cute and he replied "you too" and his friends are always bragging about the parties they throw which I have been invited to previously and he said I should come by but then again he stopped responding.

Finally, yesterday night I got tired of this facebook crap and told him I thought he was attractive and wanted to get to know him better and make a new friend. Would he like to hang out sometime? So far no reply.
But I'm trying to get this guy to hang out with me and he doesn't seem to be responding the way I want...Ive never dealt with straight up rejection before so maybe thats whats happening and I'm in denial.


Go head...give it to me straight 😢

Maybe he is hesitant to cross the line since you were once involved with his friend.

From the perspective of a Virgo guy I'd say, if he's anything like me, that he's somewhat shy and reserved. If you fancy him tell him straight. If he likes you but you're implying that you just want to "hang out with him" then he'll think you just want to be mates and will not be taking it seriously... after all, if you're using casual phrases then he'll treat you as casually as you appear to be treating him because he thinks you're not that into him. If he's anything like me you'll need to take a "thread to the needle" approach and tell it exactly how it is. Tell him to his face and if he likes it grab him by the scruff of the neck and snog his face off. Seriously. I'd love that approach - A Leo woman used it on me and we lasted 8.5 years!!

I'd say that as an Earth sign, he's not very communicative. Earth guys (Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn) are just not that big on communication, esp via internet, chats, texting, etc.

They're more of the "actions speak louder than words" guys.

Plus, if he's a typical Earth sign, he's probably busy with some project or something. Once they focus on something, they're hard to distract.

I say give him more time, or better yet, YOU seek him out rather than trying to get him to go out with you.