What Do Men Really Want?

Fellas this question is for you! Ladies do feel free to answer as well. If possible give feedback on "Virgos". I look forward for your responces.

To fuck as many women as possible.

I believe she asked men what do they want, not what do boys do.

Posted by CluelessCancer
Most men will give a simple answer of what they are looking for, but they are lying, because there are numerous women that can fit their need, but they want something even they don't understand. Some intangible thing.

so it's not even worth asking.

Hmm, well, it's not only men that do that. We can't blame them for not wanting to settle for someone who they don't really want to be with.

Sometimes someone seems perfect on paper but there is something that just isn't right. That's not lying, they do actually want those things, they may have met someone who possessed those qualities but it wasn't a match.

Been there with my Virgo friend who is a helluva great guy and who I have a million things in common with. However, I met him on a dating site and I never felt anything for him.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I believe she asked men what do they want, not what do boys do.

lol

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You know I'm gonna put it down later...right? 😉

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I believe she asked men what do they want, not what do boys do.

lol

You know I'm gonna put it down later...right? 😉

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Put...what.. down?

*mind in gutter today*

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I believe she asked men what do they want, not what do boys do.

lol

You know I'm gonna put it down later...right? 😉

Put...what.. down?

*mind in gutter today*

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Actually it's not. I'm renowned for my thoughts on thus here site. This is a topic that interests me . By implying that my mind is in the gutter are you saying the same about you because of the "thought recognition?"

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
I believe she asked men what do they want, not what do boys do.

lol

You know I'm gonna put it down later...right? 😉

Put...what.. down?

*mind in gutter today*

Actually it's not. I'm renowned for my thoughts on thus here site. This is a topic that interests me . By implying that my mind is in the gutter are you saying the same about you because of the "thought recognition?"

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No no no, I was saying MY mind was in the gutter! haha

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Posted by tiziani
Haha why do lies have to be brought into it? It really is that simple.

It's just that it's on us to push ourselves to see it and make it happen for us, whereas unfortunately along the way we meet women that are in a hurry to change us or force us to see.

And the truth is the reason why a lot of women don't live up to the ideal of a woman that believes in us 100% is because somwhere along the line they stopped believing in themselves.

But there are a lot of women that do believe in themselves, thankfully. And they are out there.

Damn...

You and Beautifulsoul are my two new favorite men on DXP.

Good stuff, sir.

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Much appreciated Dazed!

To the OP:

If you have to ask that question, then you've already missed the point.

Here's why:

The only thing that separates the sexes are physical components. We both experience love and pain the same way. I'f one is coming from a place of love, they will not need to ask what does someone want. Their heart will tell them what someone needs. When someone asks what do you want, they are looking to fill a void in themselves. Yes it is beautiful to give, but what is the real purpose behind it? Most of us give in order to receive. Therefore, the love is incomplete and arguably contains selfishness. One who truly loves and is secure in themselves...simply gives without question.

"What if that man/woman is selfish and mistreats me?" Love gives you strength. To endure and to leave if need be. But what is strength if you don't use it? I say, don't ask what someone wants. Just love them. If they accept or reject it, it is a lesson for both of you.

that would depend on the man, I don't think men are all the same or have the same wants...

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Posted by tiziani
Thanks Dazed!

Now for me to actually apply the idea into practice. Because I don't see Mrs. Tiziani anywhere around the corner haha

Except on DXP where I shall toss you a chilled beer, point you towards the hammock out in the garden and believe in you 99.9% !

Then I shall run off with my harem of adorably exciting, loving, wonderful men for the day!

ps. Don't worry, I'll be home by nightfall
pss. Don't touch the bloody bag in the refrigerator. I'd really rather you have no nightmares.

muahahahahahahahahaha

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Btw Jynja,...I am a king and a king is not in a harem 😉

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Posted by tiziani
Thanks Dazed!

Now for me to actually apply the idea into practice. Because I don't see Mrs. Tiziani anywhere around the corner haha

Except on DXP where I shall toss you a chilled beer, point you towards the hammock out in the garden and believe in you 99.9% !

Then I shall run off with my harem of adorably exciting, loving, wonderful men for the day!

ps. Don't worry, I'll be home by nightfall
pss. Don't touch the bloody bag in the refrigerator. I'd really rather you have no nightmares.

muahahahahahahahahaha

Btw Jynja,...I am a king and a king is not in a harem 😉

Of course not. Which is why I served you chilled champagne from my best glass set, laid your bed with silk and plumped your pillows with rose fragrance. Plus, I believe in you 101% ! 🙂

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🙂 you're such a charmer...I believe in you 102%

In my experiences of men it is very simple, they want to feel that you both respect them and trust them through thick and thin.

I don't know about all men, but I want:

Someone that cares for me.
Someone to share my achievements and failures with.
Someone that's confident in our actions as a team or independently.
Someone that doesn't give up when it gets difficult.
Someone that I can trust with secrets.
Someone that doesn't make me feel insecure by actions or words.
Someone that will defend us from outsiders trying to corrupt our relationship.
Someone that is willing to accept fault and willing to mature.
Someone to pick me up if I fall or fail.
Someone that make me feel special all the time.
Someone that places me next to then instead of above or over them.
Someone that will grow old with me so I don't die alone.
Someone that will make me happy when I'm sad or worried.
someone that will help me create life and raise our kids together.
Someone that will try anything and everything to keep me by their side.
Someone that is mines and mines only.
Someone that make me feel accepted.
Someone that makes me feel needed.
Someone that makes me feel loved unconditionally.
I want a partner that will be my best friend forever.....

If I can have that, I wouldn't need anything else in this world!