When do you typically start fooling around?

Most people agree that having sex too soon makes a woman look easy.

But do you think the same of a women who succumb to fooling around, like making out, taking clothes off, fondling, handjob/fingering...but not oral sex or intercourse?

When is the typically acceptable time to start fooling around, in your opinion - if the women wants to come across as girlfriend material versus just a booty call?

A) First date?
B) Second date?
C) Third date?
D) More than 3 dates, but before going exclusive (commitment to be bf/gf)? ELABORATE.
E) Only AFTER committing to an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship?

Pick ONLY one. And be realistically honest. For example, IMHO, I think fooling around on Date 1 would put a woman in hookup/booty call category. My Aqua and I started fooling around only AFTER commitment.

After about a month has been my usual experience.

I always found it odd to number the dates and go off of that. To me, it really depends on the person, how quick the attraction that would lead to sex forms, and how comfortable with the idea of going there with them is to me.

Also, my definition of "fooling around" also includes sexually suggestive texting. No matter how subtle. Even if you only reply with a 😉 at HIS sexual innuendo.

Anytime after the third date, case by case basis, letting the guy take the lead.

E is the ideal.

For me committment is not a prime consideration. But, I hoped for a love of a lifetime.

For me, waiting for sex is assessment of the possibility of sex - I'm sizing him up. Does feel right yet? Am I comfortable or attracted enough yet? Will I be ever? I weigh the situation. Sometimes, I have been seduced enough to feel comfortable to fool around but, not enough for sex. It has taken me as long as never to 9 months to feel comfortable and as short as the first date.

I don't care about coming across in a particular way - easy, a ho, etc. I like myself alot. And, I think the men who approach me kinda know that.

With my husband, I said to myself, VA what if you never see him again? I answered, I rather experience sex with him and never see him again then, not to have experienced sex with him and still never see him again. I just wanted to feel him. I never felt that way again.

I am so very curious about men. And you know, curiosity killed the cat.

Make them wait, weeks, months... if they like you they stick around and it's even better when trust and friendship is established 🙂

When you're sure he's into you and it's not about the sex. If they are willing to stick around without the sex, then he's into you.

Posted by pssymonstaa

Some women want a real relationship, gem. Not to be fucked and used, and then abandoned.

Just to clarify though, the question isn't about actual sex -- it's about fooling around, getting handsy, etc.

Not sex or oral sex, but friskiness that would be unacceptable in public.

If I really like him and we talked on the phone a lot before, We can make out and he can play with and suck my ni****s . I dont mind. I was in 2 LTRs that started that way. I am too old to worry if he thinks I loose,, ugh. Also, younger men LOVE that.

This all depends on the persons needs at the time. We are human! I don't think a girl is easy because she feels comfortable enough to share an experience with me. Attraction has nothing to do with being easy. Some girls won't commit to a relationship unless they know your good in the sack or provide the environment they seek. I don't blame them neither. Other times if you don't escalate she will think your not interested and classify you as a friend. It all depends on the type of person your looking for and how emotional you are with them.