What does He/She mean by this??

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you are very comfortable with someone- He or she could be your colleague/family friend /school mate /college mate..and when you really feel that your friend is the one you were looking for sucha long time your potential lifepartner and when you share your feeling with him/her....your are shocked to get such answers like -we are just friends or I never saw you like that etc etc...what does He/She means by that——?
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Yeah, I think you already have the answer to your own question. I think you are just shocked at the fact that you thought things were moving faster or going in a different direction than you thought & sometimes you're left asking yourself the question, "Oh no he didn't, what exactly did he mean by that?" when in reality you already know the answer, you just can't believe the other person didn't say what you wanted them to say.

But hey, if you've been having feelings for someone who doesn't have feelings for you, there's only 1 of 2 reasons why you didn't get the answer that you wanted.
1. You're not making it clear that you were interested. You'd be suprised at how many men can be like women sometimes; they won't pursue you until or unless they believe you want to be pursued by them in particular. If you've been "friends" with this person for so long & have never given any hints that you were sexually or romantically interested in them, then they have no reason but to label the two of you as nothing BUT friends.
OR
2. After getting to know you on a "friend/colleague/family friend" level, he's already made up his mind that you are not someone he'd want to get to know any further than that. And it might be because of the very main fact that you tried too hard to make it clear that you 2 were only friends or he could've seen some things in you that turned him off about you or that he just plain out doesn't see as spectacular about you any more than the average woman walking down the street.
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Huh?


I want to know what you mean by asking what s/he meant by it?



Actually, it seems typical of Taurus to get 'stuck' in this kind of an emotion. Once smitten, this feeling gets so plastered inside the Bull that blinders seem to go up, and they are UNaware of the feelings of the potential/partner ... they can only acknowledge that these feelings exist within them.

So, though, this question may seem strange for just the question in itself ... it actually seems normal, once realized it's coming from a Taurus.


Earth people really struggle with emotions.
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😢


Emotions aren't really that hard to sort out .... of course, I'm a water person, so naturally, feelings are easily understood.

You know, in your mind, what s/he meant ... it's in your emotional awareness that has you stuck into being confused and not knowing what to make out of it.

So, listen to your head .. forget about your feelings for her for the moment, and just hear what your head is telling you. Then once you have that figured out, slowly let the feelings seep in, and then you should be able to grasp what this means ...

"we are just friends or I never saw you like that"