Dating the same Venus sign:Extra awesomeness or too much alike?
Would you date someone with the same venus sign?

Yes, I am actually curious about this. I'd like a Venus in Cancer.

I would date someone with any placement. I feel like since venus holds the only fire placement in my chart, that another person with the same placement may not even be that similar to me anyway, unless their chart was water dominant as well. I only have 10% fire so it's not hard to have more than me. But, in general, I tend to get along better with people of different placements.

Honestly, I don't care what sign in which planet they are. I don't judge until I'm involved with them.

Id say no. Venus in caps want to be loved like a venus in cancer and another venus in cap is not going to do that.
id also say no go for 2 feminine venus signs.
id also say no go for 2 feminine venus signs.

I can't seem to stop. :/
Venus Virgo
Venus Virgo

Posted by PVAF
My first reaction was yes, absolutely. But eh two Aqua Venuses dating...sounds frigid. Nah. I don't think we could keep the chemistry going.
LOL PVAF, you are not far from truth. We were FWB and yet going out for drinks and having smart ass conversations seemed more entertaining than having sex. Also, I'm not good at breaking up with someone, yet he made it easy. I just gave him some hints ("do such relationships really last more than one year —") and then failed to respond to one of his daily texts. He left me in peace for several months (we both dated in the mean time), then he got back in touch during the Venus retrograde, this time as a friend without benefits.

I have yet to meet a Leo Venus. 😢
I have a feeling dating a fellow Leo Venus would be amazing. If he doesn't have any old wounds he's still nursing from an ex, we could shower each other with gifs, affection and spontaneous sex.
I have a feeling dating a fellow Leo Venus would be amazing. If he doesn't have any old wounds he's still nursing from an ex, we could shower each other with gifs, affection and spontaneous sex.

No no NO. I've never had comfortable relations with a Venus Scorpio guy. They're just too overdramatic, impulsive and moody. And they want to take up all ur time. NO THX.
I think my Libra stellium, Sagi moon and Aqua Rising/North Node mitigates my Venus.
My fiance is a Scorp sun, Capricorn Venus, Taurus rising and Aqua Mars, which is perfect for me.
My Aqua ex had a Pisces Venus, and I'd probably still be with him today had it not been for him having to move across the country. (But I think it was a hidden blessing...I met my now-fiance, who is even more perfect for me.)
Capricorn Venuses are VERY loving, don't let the Cosmo magazine astrology scare you. My guy is super affectionate, mushy and can never get enough cuddles!! He loves cuddling coccoon style , and I'm always having to peel him off in the morning because I'm late for work! 😛
Cap Venuses are complete PUPPIES.
I think my Libra stellium, Sagi moon and Aqua Rising/North Node mitigates my Venus.
My fiance is a Scorp sun, Capricorn Venus, Taurus rising and Aqua Mars, which is perfect for me.
My Aqua ex had a Pisces Venus, and I'd probably still be with him today had it not been for him having to move across the country. (But I think it was a hidden blessing...I met my now-fiance, who is even more perfect for me.)
Capricorn Venuses are VERY loving, don't let the Cosmo magazine astrology scare you. My guy is super affectionate, mushy and can never get enough cuddles!! He loves cuddling coccoon style , and I'm always having to peel him off in the morning because I'm late for work! 😛
Cap Venuses are complete PUPPIES.

Posted by munchkin
No no NO. I've never had comfortable relations with a Venus Scorpio guy. They're just too overdramatic, impulsive and moody. And they want to take up all ur time. NO THX.
I think my Libra stellium, Sagi moon and Aqua Rising/North Node mitigates my Venus.
My fiance is a Scorp sun, Capricorn Venus, Taurus rising and Aqua Mars, which is perfect for me.
My Aqua ex had a Pisces Venus, and I'd probably still be with him today had it not been for him having to move across the country. (But I think it was a hidden blessing...I met my now-fiance, who is even more perfect for me.)
Capricorn Venuses are VERY loving, don't let the Cosmo magazine astrology scare you. My guy is super affectionate, mushy and can never get enough cuddles!! He loves cuddling coccoon style , and I'm always having to peel him off in the morning because I'm late for work! 😛
Cap Venuses are complete PUPPIES.
Cap venuses are easy to spoil! And they don't mind holding hands or quick PDAs. They have love in there, you just have to give them time to trust you.
🙂

No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
🙂

Posted by DMV
Id say no. Venus in caps want to be loved like a venus in cancer and another venus in cap is not going to do that.
id also say no go for 2 feminine venus signs.
I agree, as a Venus in Cap, too cold for another Venus in Cap.

Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
So its a fear thing

Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.

Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
Why does this actually sound good to me. ::Snickers::

Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
Why does this actually sound good to me. ::Snickers::click to expand
Because ur a Cancer, & crabs get off on this kinda thing 😛
Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.click to expand
doesn't he have a Mars in Aquarius? So it makes it less smothering?
i would presume some scorpio venuses are different due to mars/sun/rising flavour and house flavours too. Looks like every woman here is dying and thirsty to get one.
aww the poor widdle other venuses. they dont get enough love. lol

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.
doesn't he have a Mars in Aquarius? So it makes it less smothering?
i would presume some scorpio venuses are different due to mars/sun/rising flavour and house flavours too. Looks like every woman here is dying and thirsty to get one.click to expand
People either love them in a pathological way, or they bitch about them. (Not always mutually exclusive lol)

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I married one. We both had venus in libra and we were both scorpios.
In theory, it should have been just fine.
In reality, no. no. no.
Two venus in libras?
It's like...."No, you first"...."No, you first"....."No, you first" *head spins*
Yea I dated another Libra Sun once and it was like this at first...
But my fire moon had enough of that bs quick and I called the shots.
Ionno. I liked another venus in scorpio A LOT, but he was intense. Thing is, he came off the exact opposite...a little goofy, nerdy, shy...but what was underneath was completely different.
Scorpio sun, cancer moon, scorpio venus. I crushed on him hard, and even now if I saw him I'd instantly get butterflies, but too intense for even me. I'd pinch myself a bit while talking to him...he'd make me so nervous.
Scorpio sun, cancer moon, scorpio venus. I crushed on him hard, and even now if I saw him I'd instantly get butterflies, but too intense for even me. I'd pinch myself a bit while talking to him...he'd make me so nervous.

Actually yes. Id be plenty happy to date someone with Venus in Taurus. But Id really like a Venus in Scorpio

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.
doesn't he have a Mars in Aquarius? So it makes it less smothering?
i would presume some scorpio venuses are different due to mars/sun/rising flavour and house flavours too. Looks like every woman here is dying and thirsty to get one.click to expand
Yes he does have mars in aqua

Posted by LunarMaidenPosted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
Why does this actually sound good to me. ::Snickers::click to expand
It's the Venus in Leo. We lap that shit up, like a kitty with cream.
In theory at least. I've never experienced all that ^^^ IRL.. Though I do tend to gravitate towards Venus in Scorp, and they to me.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by munchkinPosted by TwirlingStrawberry
I married one. We both had venus in libra and we were both scorpios.
In theory, it should have been just fine.
In reality, no. no. no.
Two venus in libras?
It's like...."No, you first"...."No, you first"....."No, you first" *head spins*
Yea I dated another Libra Sun once and it was like this at first...
But my fire moon had enough of that bs quick and I called the shots.
he had a Taurus moon.....stubborn as hell!click to expand
who would have thought a libra venus would be similar to the suns general characteristics.
my sis has a virgo with a libra venus. I wonder if she has the same problem with him.
she seems to take the "lead" though.

Posted by DMV
Venus in caps want to be loved like a venus in cancer and another venus in cap is not going to do that.
Sounds like a job for the Venus in Cancer guy =)
^^
And no, I wouldn't want to date my own Venus sign.
I imagine it would feel too monotonous and platonic. Like dating my own sister. lol

^BOOOO

Venus in Scorpio checking in.


LOL

I even posted a Valentine for you, you didn't even know it was from me or for you.
So disappointed in your Cancer Venus.
So disappointed in your Cancer Venus.
Posted by Damnata
I even posted a Valentine for you, you didn't even know it was from me or for you.
So disappointed in your Cancer Venus.
i think he's actually stumped....shocked.
O_O
ryu, your scorpio venus brings all the gals to milkyard milk shake milky way shake shake.
watch out!!! the women are out in full force.

🙂)
lol, liz
I aim to shock 🙂)
lol, liz
I aim to shock 🙂)
I would. I have before, it can work. Although I like difference, variety, etc.
i had a venus in taurus...and whoo child is all I can say
id def do it again
id def do it again

Posted by Damnata
I even posted a Valentine for you, you didn't even know it was from me or for you.
So disappointed in your Cancer Venus.
Actually, hon, you were one of my top-three guesses! 😉
But a secret Valentine is suppose to stay secret so la-la-la-la-la, I can't hear you!! 😛

I wouldn't be so foolish as to forgo dating a man I was interested in because our suns signs didn't match, never mind our Venus signs. See, this isn't the way you use astrology-to suss out another and plan your life accordingly. That kind of thinking is a recipe for disaster. Besides which, how many of us know the sun let alone venus sign of someone we're only dating?
This way lies madness.
This way lies madness.


Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by DMV
Venus in caps want to be loved like a venus in cancer and another venus in cap is not going to do that.
Sounds like a job for the Venus in Cancer guy =)
^^
And no, I wouldn't want to date my own Venus sign.
I imagine it would feel too monotonous and platonic. Like dating my own sister. lolclick to expand
yes! you feel me—
if u ever met a venus in cap, they wouldnt believe you at first how mushy you are, but after a while, they will become addicted.

Posted by bkbella86
i had a venus in taurus...and whoo child is all I can say
id def do it again
i never met one? where can i meet a venus in bull?

Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.click to expand
He has venus in cap. It does seem to match pretty well. I think he secretly likes the intensity of my scorp venus because it is reassuring for him and he knows its sincere.

Posted by TURNDOWNFORWHATPosted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
So its a fear thingclick to expand
Possible.

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.
doesn't he have a Mars in Aquarius? So it makes it less smothering?
i would presume some scorpio venuses are different due to mars/sun/rising flavour and house flavours too. Looks like every woman here is dying and thirsty to get one.click to expand
I have mars in aquarius. His is in pisces.

Posted by capgirl69Posted by lisabethur8Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
What is your boyfriends Venus?
Just curious. As a Venus in Cap, love that the Scorp has Venus in Scorp, and I think it goes both ways.
doesn't he have a Mars in Aquarius? So it makes it less smothering?
i would presume some scorpio venuses are different due to mars/sun/rising flavour and house flavours too. Looks like every woman here is dying and thirsty to get one.
Yes he does have mars in aquaclick to expand
He's just like me scorp venus and mars aqua. Your venus is in capricorn, where is your mars? Be pretty cool if we once again had a similar paralell thing. 🙂

Posted by rainydayz
Dating the same Venus sign:Extra awesomeness or too much alike?
I would love to date another Venus in Cancer.

Posted by AndalusiaPosted by LunarMaidenPosted by truecap
No, no, no!!! I would not want a venus in scorpio. I have enough trouble keeping the lid on mine. Last thing I need is someone smothering me, stalking my every move and being suspicious of me. Besides, I think I'd be afraid of the intensity.
🙂
Why does this actually sound good to me. ::Snickers::
It's the Venus in Leo. We lap that shit up, like a kitty with cream.
In theory at least. I've never experienced all that ^^^ IRL.. Though I do tend to gravitate towards Venus in Scorp, and they to me.click to expand
I wonder why the two gravitate towards each other.

i don't recall ever meeting a venus in scorpio.
but i don't think i could do it...we'd never get anything done outside of "us".
but i don't think i could do it...we'd never get anything done outside of "us".
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