"Enough" pursuing

Meaning, type of guys used by. How much is too much/ too little?

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Posted by nakedgirlavalanche

too much is when you're making someone uncomfortable too little is when they start playing games

How would you feel if a guy tells he pursued you enough?? and when it's obviously way less than standard?

From what i've observed in all this years... around a month is usually more than enough. And around a week (more or less) - might be to little.

I mean, if you have a chance with the one in question - you're bound to know that in the first two weeks. While a month latter - things should be very clear (where you're standing). More than a month - and you might be chasing waterfalls.

Posted by neves

From what i've observed in all this years... around a month is usually more than enough. And around a week (more or less) - might be to little.

I mean, if you have a chance with the one in question - you're bound to know that in the first two weeks. While a month latter - things should be very clear (where you're standing). More than a month - and you might be chasing waterfalls.

There was simple misunderstanding and things went south. Ehh we will see, I swallowed my pride and opened up, the ball's in his court . What are your placements neves?

Don't waste your time on people that will have you asking these questions. If you have made your intentions clear there is no need to play games or pursue any further than you already have. They will initiate back if you actually mean something to them.

Enough is when it's not being reciprocated. Two cheetahs chasing a deer is always better than one.

Posted by pisceanloves

Posted by neves

From what i've observed in all this years... around a month is usually more than enough. And around a week (more or less) - might be to little.

I mean, if you have a chance with the one in question - you're bound to know that in the first two weeks. While a month latter - things should be very clear (where you're standing). More than a month - and you might be chasing waterfalls.

There was simple misunderstanding and things went south. Ehh we will see, I swallowed my pride and opened up, the ball's in his court . What are your placements neves?

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Gem Sun/Mars, Aries Moon, Leo Venus, Cancer ASC.

Tough, above conclusion is based on - all the successful hookups I'm familiar with - from the real world (some were shared even online). I'm 35, so i did witness and heard a lot of them by now (: one could say - i'm the observant type). Mainly empirical observation, since the successful stories belong to others (: the personal ones - are more like an anti-example / what not to do - like chasing waterfalls 🙄).