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Posted by PiscoiCaps need some light shed on their behaviors from time to time. Just ask him if he wants to be with you or not. He’ll either tell you that yes he does, and needed some space to think about the relationship, or he’s going to ghost. Just be straightforward.
My exact words "I don't like late night meetings, I want us to spend quality time together and form strong, unbreakable bond", Pretty straightforward right? we hardly spoke lately, if I say something he throws a word or 2, definitely not enough for me, but i keep my cool.
Posted by ImpulsvThe behavior stemmed way before u texting him inviting him to the beach
I didn't invite him. We had plans but he didn't confirm, so I went to the beach instead with my friends.
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by ImpulsvThe behavior stemmed way before u texting him inviting him to the beach
I didn't invite him. We had plans but he didn't confirm, so I went to the beach instead with my friends.
Didn’t mean to say cuz u invitedSeems when You texted no I don’t fuck freinds n you want to establish more his behavior since then is the answer
He not in it like you want it to be
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I said that while we were having a dinner on Sunday, and the reason him saying that was "he would have worn something better" , that doesn't say a whole lot actually. I'm gonna see if he makes plans for upcoming weekend.
I'm proud of you for establishing boundaries!
Posted by pisceanlovesNeed some clarification about my situation.
So I've been dating this cap sun pisces moon/mars , aqua venus for a month now, we've gone on 2 dates. 2nd one what he called was "hanging out". I told him I only hang out with friends but I don't "f****" them. The other day he texted me last minute late at night asking if he could come over, he was stopping by in my town. I said no, I would like us to spend quality time together, outside bed and actually become something. Anyways past week we were supposed to meet but have not heard from him, so I sent a message saying I was going to nearby city to the beach with my friends - silence, so I left it at that. I should mention second date was afterwards on Sunday when I got home. Today I posted beach photos on my facebook. Made a collage, like 5 pics in one photo, and 2 additional. Nothing provocative or nude, regular bikini photos, plus I'm in a good shape. Now he's silent. I must say I don't usually post photos like that and you can hardly find any but I wanted to post them so I did. I have a very strong feeling he didn't like it. Any ideas?
keep up the good work
Posted by AdreamuponwakingI'm proud of you for establishing boundaries!
You lady, you know all of it lol
He wanted to get freaky and you said no. Hes pouting
Well one thing I've noticed is that he holds back a lot. I'm more open and communicative than him, that to me speaks about personality on a weaker side. He has a very tough exterior, but oh boy, is he quiet? avoids direct eye contact, can't hold gaze for too long and I'm 100% sure it's not about him disliking me. I might be intimidating him or dunno. Anyways I'll keep you guys updated , I want that man, no matter what, I want him all for myself lol
I came up with the idea to go camping in the woods this weekend. Also I sense I get to do all the planning, at least for now. I'm not usually a leader but if I have to I guess I will compromise. Sigh
ALERT !
We had a video chat a few minutes ago, he called me on messenger, there was a guy, his friend next to him. Prior to this I texted him that I would be there if he needed me (he mentioned some issues, like housing etc). So he asks me straigh what did I mean when I offered help and what I wanted to talk about, I'm not used to group conversations and I don't talk about deep stuff in someone else's presence other than him. Anyways he caught me off guard completely. He says, that guy, don't even remember his name, is his friend and I should trust him , he's artistic like me and blah blah blah, and we will get along good. I mean wtf is going on? what is this all about, is that casual intro to friends or there might be some bad intentions from his side? he and his friend will picking me up on Friday at 5 and I'll be helping him to move his stuff to a new apartment, afterwards "we" are gonna have some fire pit and might go out camping in the woods. I'm honestly scared . He kept asking what did I mean when offered help? so many questions, and I don't have an answer. That was such a bold move, I'm damn speechless
Posted by ImpulsvWhat is this fucken high school
He’s playing games
If this isn’t turning you off
Please elaborate, what games. He's 34, not young. I mean I've never been a serial dater, please bear with me and I'm somewhat inexperienced. I just need to understand what is going on, he definitely moves away, I knew that for a long time but what the hell just happened?
I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
instead of asking him about the date you were supposed to have, you just outright told him you were going to the beach with friend, you just closed the door on him.
Posted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
Posted by GobbyIt must be his Mars fucking with your head, as I have the same placements as him apart from his Mars (mine's in Taurus). Something's not quite right with him. Either that or he's an eccentric one (i.e. a stronger Aqua Venus influence)...
Agree completely, I'm trying to figure out what's up
Posted by ACsquareplutoPosted by pisceanlovesI want that man, no matter what, I want him all for myself lol
Love your spirit
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Thank you lol
Always burning bright and getting all restless if I'm into someone
Posted by hydorahinstead of asking him about the date you were supposed to have, you just outright told him you were going to the beach with friend, you just closed the door on him.
Disagree. I asked him to confirm the date - he didn't. I def wasn't gonna sit home and waiting for his phone call. He needs to step up and if he's really playing games with me, then I'm out.
Post pics or it never happened 😍
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by hydorahinstead of asking him about the date you were supposed to have, you just outright told him you were going to the beach with friend, you just closed the door on him.
Disagree. I asked him to confirm the date - he didn't. I def wasn't gonna sit home and waiting for his phone call. He needs to step up and if he's really playing games with me, then I'm out.
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but you did close the door tho
this isn't going to help things going forward if you both doin this game playan
Posted by hydorahPosted by pisceanlovesPosted by hydorahinstead of asking him about the date you were supposed to have, you just outright told him you were going to the beach with friend, you just closed the door on him.
Disagree. I asked him to confirm the date - he didn't. I def wasn't gonna sit home and waiting for his phone call. He needs to step up and if he's really playing games with me, then I'm out.
but you did close the door tho
this isn't going to help things going forward if you both doin this game playan
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To be honest I don't think this is going anywhere. I'm little frustrated .
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
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You guys are unstable and childish. Maybe a gemini Venus would appreciate you
Posted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
You guys are unstable and childish. Maybe a gemini Venus would appreciate you
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Gemini venus is very unreliable and unstable, no thanks
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
You guys are unstable and childish. Maybe a gemini Venus would appreciate you
Gemini venus is very unreliable and unstable, no thanks
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And so is a pisces venus lol
Posted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
You guys are unstable and childish. Maybe a gemini Venus would appreciate you
Gemini venus is very unreliable and unstable, no thanks
And so is a pisces venus lol
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You got it all wrong I'm telling you, you won't find any other venus sign more determined and focused than us haha
We are good by the way
We had a big talk last night, things going into right direction
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by Sag898I hate that Venus in pisces is always attracted to us. You guys are all emotion and zero logic such a turn off.
Good to know that you hate us, like we care 😄 World already has enough puppets with zero emotion, we color your life, be grateful or eff off
You guys are unstable and childish. Maybe a gemini Venus would appreciate you
Gemini venus is very unreliable and unstable, no thanks
And so is a pisces venus lol
You got it all wrong I'm telling you, you won't find any other venus sign more determined and focused than us haha
We are good by the way
We had a big talk last night, things going into right direction
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Hmm, well hasn't been my experience. I've been with two
So back to the topic. I was thinking last night and can't make up my mind about something and it really bothers me. So additional thoughts appreciated.
So some of you are well aware of me not being US native, (from Europe). Anyways in my culture being a gentleman and showing manners is kinda great deal, so guys always try to impress a girl. However this cap split the bill of dinner we had. Afterwards, at the gas station's drive thru he got himself a soda and didn't even ask if I wanted anything. I just can not shake my mind off of this and keep thinking about the fact that he treated me that way. Especially, my half was just $ 11. Obviously it has nothing to do with money, I could afford definitely but. Anyways what ya'll think?
He noticed changing in my mood however, till this day he thinks it was because he made a call to his kids, before them going to bed.
Am I overthinking?
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Need some clarification about my situation.
So I've been dating this cap sun pisces moon/mars , aqua venus for a month now, we've gone on 2 dates. 2nd one what he called was "hanging out". I told him I only hang out with friends but I don't "f****" them. The other day he texted me last minute late at night asking if he could come over, he was stopping by in my town. I said no, I would like us to spend quality time together, outside bed and actually become something. Anyways past week we were supposed to meet but have not heard from him, so I sent a message saying I was going to nearby city to the beach with my friends - silence, so I left it at that. I should mention second date was afterwards on Sunday when I got home. Today I posted beach photos on my facebook. Made a collage, like 5 pics in one photo, and 2 additional. Nothing provocative or nude, regular bikini photos, plus I'm in a good shape. Now he's silent. I must say I don't usually post photos like that and you can hardly find any but I wanted to post them so I did. I have a very strong feeling he didn't like it. Any ideas?