5 Relationship Wrap Ups... (Guarateed To Fail)

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Who really cares why?? There’s no benefit in understanding it. Toxic people know their messed up. So, all us every day people should learn to be aware of these 5 signs that will gradually cause you to leave anyway in time. So let’s just get into it. This isn’t about love or feelings, this is about character so you can see the undesirables early and slip out the back…. Here we go…

#1 Talking Shyt About you to others-

Now, it doesn’t matter if you’re wrong or right, if you messed up or not. In any relationship that’s meant to be personal, IT’S PERSONAL!!! Anybody that takes off running their mouths negatively about you, aren’t respecting your relationship anyway. Did you hear about all the foul crap his/her friends did to him/her?? Exactly!!! So, the reality that person is just trying to get a fan club to be justified in doing something foul to you sooner or later. Drop em.

#2 Acknowledge what you didn’t do instead of what you did do-

Pay attention to the conversations that occur between you and your special person. If they are always reminding you of what you didn’t do, instead of seeing what you are doing, tell them to keep it pushing. These types of people will have you paying all the bills buying things for their family, fixing things for you and their relatives, cooking/buying dinner, and at the same time will remind you of what you didn’t get to. What’s the problem with that— Why didn’t they do it if they want to remember it so much?? Either because they will not do it and the relationship isn’t balanced or you’re a cheap labor and they’re trying to use you for all you’re worth. The yolk feels no guilt on the ox. Remember that…

#3 Building each other vs Taking care of a bugger-

Now this should be self-explanatory, but let’s dig a little. A relationship should feel at times like two people in a well climbing to the top together back to back. Together you synchronize movements inch by inch upwards to level up to greater things. You learn to trust each other and each other’s movements and the bonds solidify. Now… A relationship SHOULDN’T feel like you climbing out of a well with a rope attached to you, and on that rope, you have a person hanging there expecting to make the journey like a child. That rope is reserved to rescue children out the well. Not for grown lazy people who expect to ride your coat tail to success. Cut the rope and watch how much lighter your burden seems… You have my permission to do the Virgo thing. When we cut the rope, depending on how horrible that person has been, we’ll hang there for a moment, just to listen to you hit the bottom, smile to ourselves, and keep it pushing.

#4 Make Plans for Your Money-

If you meet a person who doesn’t want your gifts but wants your money… Run!!! If you meet someone who constantly tells you what you both need, but is looking for you to pay for it, read instructions above. The money that you earn should NEVER be up for discussion with someone who you’re dating. What do they need to know for?? Only, to measure your assets instead of measuring who you are as a person. Drop that money sucking vampire before they try to bobsled you into the cemetery.

#5 They hang with a group of single friends-

Now this one is universal. All real people know that if you can find 2 real friends or family members that you can get along with in this lifetime, you’re doing better than most. Not because it’s a reflection of your nature or friendliness, but simply because the majority of people we encounter are slimy. Those of us who been to high school or college and were in large groups know exactly how many actual friends came out of those groups. Maybe one. And that one is worth all the rest because of the relationship you share. If you run into a man/woman with more than 5 female and/or male friends, you’re wasting your time. Know it here and now. Not associates but friends. I’m going to explain this in its purest nature. Little birds, wolves, jackals, hyenas, seagulls, little fish, and insects are always in big groups. Lions, tigers, eagles, owls, whales, sharks, bears, gorillas, or anything in nature that can take care of itself is by itself surrounded by members of its opposite sex. And yes situationships, entanglements, FWB… that’s single. They find strength in each other because alone they are all weak. Remember even an alpha wolf is just an oversized dog…

Comment below… Just thought there are some who should know…
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GemCurioThe1
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5 Years

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Posted by virgoOPPP

i kinda wanna break up with a guy

should i text 'bye' or misspell it 'byr' ??

to make it look like i don't care


It's funny you say that because a girl told me that if I ghost her to write her a letter. I told her that I would and it would have 3 letters... B... Y....E...

Just do it. There's no need to draw it out. Just say what it is, and try to be kind.
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HeavyEntertainmentShow
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Keep it as short and sweet as possible, show him that he ain't worth a damn anymore - no matter how much you dotted on him in the past.

And then make it even worse several weeks later when you pretend you don't notice him at the same cafe you and your new hottie are at - and proceed to make out with said new hottie.

And then when someone in your ex's company notices YOU and actively makes an effort to talk to you, as he awkwardly comes along thinking he's gonna get some pleasantries in, only to be completely ignored. With said new hottie smirking beside you.

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And then end up going home with a different hottie

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🤣🤣🤣 fuck, I love my Aries stellium, it got no chill.