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Asking someone to hang out too much?
just ask him ?
Posted by tctaI was going to but I didn't want to put him on the spot, since he's on the shy side.
just ask him ?
I'm an introvert. I never go out to any outings with my co-workers but they always invite me still. The day they stop asking and extending the offer will make me cry *wahhhh*
Posted by Rubyred717Are you being sarcastic? So I should not ask him anymore?
I'm an introvert. I never go out to any outings with my co-workers but they always invite me still. The day they stop asking and extending the offer will make me cry *wahhhh*
@getmisted Yes he does.
I assume that's his way to say leave me alone
You got a bf so I think it's time to mind your business lol
You got a bf so I think it's time to mind your business lol
take him out for coffee...tell him you think he's cool...tell him that you consider him a friend and you enjoy his company... ...tell him it's OK to be introverted... ...ask him if he'd like to get out more and do things with people... ...something like that...
...bottom line...you don't know him that well... ...you don't know if he's happy.. ...what he wants...
...I'm reading that you don't want to be more than friends with him.. ...you think he needs/wants to get out more with people...you think he has a lot to offer... ...take things slow and get to know him as a friend...that's how people become closer friends... ...the more you learn about him and the more he learns about you the easier it will be to help him...
...the right opportunity will present itself re: inviting him over to dinner with you and your bf
...bottom line...you don't know him that well... ...you don't know if he's happy.. ...what he wants...
...I'm reading that you don't want to be more than friends with him.. ...you think he needs/wants to get out more with people...you think he has a lot to offer... ...take things slow and get to know him as a friend...that's how people become closer friends... ...the more you learn about him and the more he learns about you the easier it will be to help him...
...the right opportunity will present itself re: inviting him over to dinner with you and your bf
Posted by P10Oh no, I wasn't being sarcastic! Definitely ask him...I'm sure he appreciate you inviting him out. Don't make him feel left outPosted by Rubyred717Are you being sarcastic? So I should not ask him anymore?
I'm an introvert. I never go out to any outings with my co-workers but they always invite me still. The day they stop asking and extending the offer will make me cry *wahhhh*click to expand
Oh ok, thank you @rubyred717 🙂
Posted by P10You are so welcome @P10
Oh ok, thank you @rubyred717 🙂
Don't make too much of it. He was merely expressing himself to you. He sounds appreciative and introspective and nothing else.
Posted by LillyPetalYeah I asked a friend who is an introvert, and he said that he likes it when someone asks him to do something, even though a lot of times he turns them down.
Don't make too much of it. He was merely expressing himself to you. He sounds appreciative and introspective and nothing else.
So if you think he appreciated it, that's good. I just didn't want to keep bugging him if he'd rather be left alone.
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