ATTENTION WOMEN!!!!!

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Cancer Lady
@Cancer Lady
18 Years1,000+ Posts

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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists
of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



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MsAristocracy
@MsAristocracy
18 Years500+ PostsVirgo

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"Never borrow someone else's man."

Well I will agree that it's possible that he will cheat on you. There are some men who are happily married to the other woman. But, I will say that dealing with someone else's man can be painful to all involved such as if she finds out or if he won't leave her. Then if he does and cheats on you then that's just double ouch!

Anyway, I'm picking up what the author's putting down. 🙂
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LostPisces
@LostPisces
19 Years1,000+ Posts

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Well yesterday I said I was going to work erlier and today I didnt, I was tired, my girfriend didint liked, she says is not the first time, that I only make what I want and not what is needed, and this affects both, and that I end up alone someday, and she is very distant today.

Is it fair? I think not, I give all my love, attention with no expeting nothing in return, only her smile or presence.

whatever, I think is totally unfair in some situations.