Bitches

You boys love 'em.

HA! At the plural of cookiemonster spelled with "es".

You MUST be talking about me 😛

Any epic moments to share Waste?

Something a "bitch" did that you found yourself drooling, thinking.... now this girl, this girl I have to have....

Of course not. Women only like nice guys. 😉

I did something kindy "bitchy" to this guy not too long ago. He ate it up like candy. Without going into the whole story I'll give you the highlight...

He texts something like... "Why didn't you call me back last night? I had time off and I wanted to hang out with you."
My response is... "I'm happy you had some time off! However, you're on my schedule and I'll let you know when your day comes up. 😉"

He cannot get enough. Pestering. Wanting to see me. Seriously can't believe I'd talk to him like that.

Pfft... Men LOVE bitches.

Waste, I think you'll soon learn I am about as sarcastic as they come.
He doesn't have to be desperate, but if he comes with a serious drug habit it's a plus.

I do like to be heavily pursued though, gotta admit... it is nice.

So guys, what are some other things have women done with you that fall under this category?
I may or may not be asking so I can selfishly put some new tricks in my arsenal. Hey, it's a war zone out there.

Lies and propaganda.

Awww.. my picture makes me look like I'm not a bitch? 😄

.. and I hug me cuz I effin' LOVE me 😉

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
You boys love 'em.

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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Of course not. Women only like nice guys. 😉

I did something kindy "bitchy" to this guy not too long ago. He ate it up like candy. Without going into the whole story I'll give you the highlight...

He texts something like... "Why didn't you call me back last night? I had time off and I wanted to hang out with you."
My response is... "I'm happy you had some time off! However, you're on my schedule and I'll let you know when your day comes up. 😉"

He cannot get enough. Pestering. Wanting to see me. Seriously can't believe I'd talk to him like that.

Pfft... Men LOVE bitches.

haha naw thats not a bitch move, you just know what you want and you're a open tease...i like your style 😄

if a girl said that to me...well nvm, a girl would never say that to me cuz that would mean she thinks shes better then me and that she has me wrapped around her finger......😢 why do you play these men so?

Perhaps I didn't do a good job explaining myself. Wouldn't be the first time.

You have to take a few extra things into account. He called me on his night off. Late. If he knew he had the time off (don't you normally get your schedule ahead of time—) then he should have made the date earlier. I'll not be someone's last minute plan. So, with force I politely put him in his place. Women so rarely do that; most would be pushovers that JUMP to opportunity to hang with said guy, or at least from what I've noticed.

When I use the term bitch I use it endearingly. I mean those brazen women who refuse to be a doormat, a last minute thought, and force the men to take them seriously and apart from the crowd of women with whom they lose interest in quickly once they realize there is no battle to be had.

Men like what they have to work for. It's in your DNA. In theory, the harder it is to have a women the more he'll appreciate her. I think the reverse is also true for women, but it's for a few different reasons (just look at all the women on the Cancer boards 😉).

So, my question is really.... Men, what are some instances when a woman stood her ground with you and it left you totally turned on and wondering all about her mystique?

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Perhaps I didn't do a good job explaining myself. Wouldn't be the first time.

You have to take a few extra things into account. He called me on his night off. Late. If he knew he had the time off (don't you normally get your schedule ahead of time—) then he should have made the date earlier. I'll not be someone's last minute plan. So, with force I politely put him in his place. Women so rarely do that; most would be pushovers that JUMP to opportunity to hang with said guy, or at least from what I've noticed.

When I use the term bitch I use it endearingly. I mean those brazen women who refuse to be a doormat, a last minute thought, and force the men to take them seriously and apart from the crowd of women with whom they lose interest in quickly once they realize there is no battle to be had.

Men like what they have to work for. It's in your DNA. In theory, the harder it is to have a women the more he'll appreciate her. I think the reverse is also true for women, but it's for a few different reasons (just look at all the women on the Cancer boards 😉).

So, my question is really.... Men, what are some instances when a woman stood her ground with you and it left you totally turned on and wondering all about her mystique?

your term of bitch-i consider it just traits that all REAL woman have...dont be so hard on yourself, cuz thats not even close to what a bitch is.
as for your question,it has happened to me ONCE by a gem woman, but i cant bring myself to spill the details, sorry >.

Hahaha! I'm now wondering why you boys are reluctant to spill. Massive Gem curiousity over here!!!

It wasn't late enough to be a booty call, but it was late enough to be rude and very evident I was a last thought... It was 7pm.

I use the term endearingly from the book - "Why men love bitches" which despite the title is actually a pretty good book.

DID I MENTION MASSIVE GEM CURIOUSITY———

Oh and by my comment back to him about being on my time.... I travel A LOT for work and when I am in town I have limited time. I meant that as a reminder that I will let him know when I have free time but he has to plan ahead with me. We've discussed my schedule once before although he is a new guy as of late....

Meant that ^^^^ as in.... I didn't mean to imply I was telling him I'd booty call him. LOL.

Posted by WasteOfTime
Secrets are best kept as just that :X.

Come on in darling, sit down, have some lemonade. Would you also like some fresh cookies Come now dear, there are no secrets among friends.

LOL, okay, okay, I give. I'll leave your stories to you. I won't push. 😉

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Posted by WasteOfTime
It's a war zone because some are just out there to hurt, while the rest are out to love.

yup

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But there's also a mid-ground to consider.... people who don't trust from hello, who wait to see how a person functions, let's them earn trust as it is deserved. Sometimes the people who "are out to love" just appear that way until you find they didn't want you, they wanted anyone. They need someone to fufill them. Then you also have the people who are out to "hurt", maybe they seem like game players, but they themselves have been truly duped. They now test and push a little to learn how someone will react. All in the name of looking to find out what they need to know.

So while I make a joke about it being a war zone out there, it's not quite exactly fair to turn that into a generalized statement with a modicum of truth. Then again, this is how we spark interesting conversations and polite debate probing into topics.

Posted by WasteOfTime
Ah I see. Act like you're interested, then act like you're not in the same post. Hmm interesting tactic. How often does that work out for you 🙂? I'm afraid it wont with me 😉.

Midgets and ponies! You're onto me. 😉

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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Hahaha! I'm now wondering why you boys are reluctant to spill. Massive Gem curiousity over here!!!

It wasn't late enough to be a booty call, but it was late enough to be rude and very evident I was a last thought... It was 7pm.

I use the term endearingly from the book - "Why men love bitches" which despite the title is actually a pretty good book.

DID I MENTION MASSIVE GEM CURIOUSITY———

That book really is the Bible.......

So it's all made up pretty much ?
🙂

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THIS TOTALLY MADE ME LOL!

Even though I do agree.... I LOVE that book.

Had a few guys tell me that my "bitchyness" turns them on...😉 They love that FIRE!!!

Posted by RealTalk
Had a few guys tell me that my "bitchyness" turns them on...😉 They love that FIRE!!!

I agree! What are some of the "rules" that you live by?

I HATE to be last minute date.
I HATE it when a guy doesn't do what he said he would do.... be there at a certain time, call / text when he said he would, etc. etc.
I HATE to be with a guy who has an obvious wandering eye.
I HATE when a man doesn't open doors. I like being treated like a lady.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Perhaps I didn't do a good job explaining myself. Wouldn't be the first time.

You have to take a few extra things into account. He called me on his night off. Late. If he knew he had the time off (don't you normally get your schedule ahead of time—) then he should have made the date earlier. I'll not be someone's last minute plan. So, with force I politely put him in his place. Women so rarely do that; most would be pushovers that JUMP to opportunity to hang with said guy, or at least from what I've noticed.

When I use the term bitch I use it endearingly. I mean those brazen women who refuse to be a doormat, a last minute thought, and force the men to take them seriously and apart from the crowd of women with whom they lose interest in quickly once they realize there is no battle to be had.

Men like what they have to work for. It's in your DNA. In theory, the harder it is to have a women the more he'll appreciate her. I think the reverse is also true for women, but it's for a few different reasons (just look at all the women on the Cancer boards 😉).

So, my question is really.... Men, what are some instances when a woman stood her ground with you and it left you totally turned on and wondering all about her mystique?

See I agree with you on that late night bullshit...I would've been bitchy too. Please, don't call me late wanting to hang out...your day off? Shit, why the hell didn't you call me earlier? I feel you, % 100. I had a guy do that to me calling me late & I cursed him the hell out...He apologized for it the next day...😉 When you show a guy that you have balls with a backbone of stainless steel & won't tolerate any ill behavior, he'll respect that...

*100% ...lol

i can't believe women really are bitches.