does he loves me

im wondering why christopher jones is scared im tierd of trying to find out about him i do love him am i doing the right thing about taking my son to see his mother i do love him i dont want nothing to go wrong on friday if he loves me like he say he do he would take care of his child

my birthday is 8/14/79 from the question above sorry about that

What exactly are you saying Anne26 - is Christoper Jones the father of your child? or are you meeting his parents for the first time with your own child?

If he loves you, he will accept you, your child and all you every which way.
If he doesn't, then he won'tand you will feel it deep in your heart and know.

Sorry to be so blunt but I have my "black and white" glasses on today...no fuzzy or grey areas for me today!!!

Alana x

no he feels he is not the father and i was taking the baby to see his grandma is that a right thing to do alana

More info please anne26!

If he thinks he is not the father then sad to say he probably does not love you enough because he would accept you and the child & respect the fact that you are telling him it is his child. I am sure things must be allot more complicated than that so do tell. They always are when emotions & the heart is involved.

You need to take a step back and have a long hard look at what you want for your child with or without him & if it is the right thing for your child.
No. 1 is the kid no. 2 is you & your mental health (seeing as by the sounds of things you are looking after the child the most) no. 3 is him in that order.

Hi Anne26

You are a "Leo" female and the year of the "monkey". From this combination you are double monkey in chinese astrology. The month of the leo equals the month of the monkey. For example Aries = dragon, taurus = snake, gemini = horse, etc. Since you are born of a double monkey, your life is very complex, your mind is very complex. You have to sit down and write down everything that has happened. Organize what is going on. Like pisces said, set your priorities straight. What is most important? Your child, you, or him? I can tell you that you should not care what his mother thinks of you or your child. What nationality are you Anne26? The reason I ask is that culture plays a large part in you decision.