Exclusively talking vs Dating? Sooo confused!?

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beelibra
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12 Years

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This guy and I have been "talking" for about a month now. We've had sex, I've met his family, we've gone out on several dates and have sleepovers, and talk literally non stop from morning to night. Last week a conversation kinda just came up, and we talked about how we're not seeing anybody else.

And just 2 nights ago, I was spending the night and someone texted me kinda late and he asked who I was texting which shows he cares. (It was like 3 am so I understand why! He's far from insecure) So whats the deal, whats next? I don't know if were just exclusively talking or would this be dating? I have a 2 year old daughter so I don't know if that confuses him on how to approach moving up with me or what the deal is. He talks about me to his friends, made a little album on his phone with pics of me, and talks to his mom about me. haha so whats going on! thanks guys!

PS] Im a Libra/Scorpio Cusp (oct. 21) and hes a Capricorn. I find I have to make first moves and kinda pull to open him up, although his interest in me is without a doubt there with mine. Is this something I need to do more pulling? Gahhh. -___-
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Tommycat
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12 Years

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Don't over-think your situation. Life is not lived in black and white and pigeon holes. It sounds like your relationship is off to a good start and meaningful and satisfying to both of you. You also trust each other and are relatively secure about yourselves. Although you have spent days with each other and hours and hours talking you still have much to learn about each other. In addition your trust in each other will, ideally, also grow and strengthen. You are too early in the relationship to worry about marriage which can wait. If being together is good enjoy what time you can with each other without being detrimental to yourselves or the other people in your life important to you. It is quite possibly a good time to start talking about exclusivity. You can discuss this calmly over several months without any pressure to come to a decision by a date. I wish you both all the best. Please remember that love given freely and good time together is something wonderful whatever happens in the future. Count your blessings, be here now and move forward without fear and full of love.