OK, well I guess I messed up big time by playing a little game, but before I start let me tell you that I am someone who got out of a really bad marriage (he almost killed me) so I am not looking to have a committed relationship in a very long time, but I am open to a fwb relationship, (I had one that lasted over a year which worked wonders for me because there was no drama or attachment unfortunately he moved away for work) so after few months I decided to see if I could have the fwb arrangement with a friend of mine, of course with him I was a little anxious as to his reaction because he has always been the typical good guy, and we work across the street from each other,(narrow street) so to test the waters I send him a txt as a secret admirer (stupid right?) and he txted back, he actually warmed up to the idea, his text weren't sexual they were more like why haven't you said anything or why haven't you kissed me, stuff like that and when the meet up subject came up he said he will let me know about the day I had proposed, so because of other stuff I have going for me I didn't contacted him again for 3 days, and he didn't either, so on the 4th day I initiated contact again, because it was the day i had proposed and i wanted to see if he was going to make the time (of course he didn't know it was me yet) and so after i sent the text he immediately called back and we agreed to a certain hour, and then the meeting happened and everything went south so to speak, when he saw me he was really surprised, while we talked he told me he had his suspicions it may have been me since he received the first message because the first thing he did was to look over where I was at, but he wasn't sure, he also asked me if i had mentioned something to a mutual friend, which i hadn't and i told him so, we also talked about obviously not telling anyone as that can cause trouble for him and for me, families are very old fashioned and we are in a very small town where everyone knows everyone, so I also told him that because I had proposed fwb didn't mean he had to accept, if he wasn't up to it, that was fine so when he told me he just had to think about a way to see each other out of town with our crazy schedules, so I assumed (wrongly) he had accepted and so I asked if that meant that we were going to go forward with it and he said yes, and that he will let me know about the "way", anyways the next day i saw him and I was being careful with the people around but i somehow had t
