have you ever faked a orgasm?

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Actually, what I have found is that many women have a disconnect with their sexuality. Many women find it hard to be in the moment. Some of my female friends have admitted that they make grocery lists or worry about when they will do the laundry in the middle of having sex.

Many, many women do fake orgasm Mz. Although I myself have not, I appear to be a huge exception.
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Yes, I've faked plenty of orgasms before. But here's my reasoning, when I'm with a guy that I actually care about or love, I fake an orgasm because I know that his confidence would go down if he knew he wasn't pleasing me as much as he thought he was. And I'd value his feelings. I'd want him to think he could please me just like I can please him, which is very important to guys. Now if the man I love absolutely SUCKS, then I'd have to tell him & offer suggestions. But if the sex is good, but just not good enough for me to have the BIG O, then yes, I'd fake it. But having sex with someone who is just a friend or who I don't at all care about is when my true feelings come out. If I feel like staring into space (letting him know that THIS SUCKS) then I'll let it show without any hesitation. There's been a few times I've filed my nails while having sex out of boredom & didn't have any problem appearing to be bored.
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LMAO OSG. You crack me up!

I'm pretty inexperienced in the sex department. I could count my sex encounters on one hand, using no thumbs and a few less fingers lol. But I've never faked. I've never actually gotten out of the painful stage. But, I'm really not vocal either. The dude who can speak on my sexual experiences told me it discouraged him with how quiet I was.

Ehh well. I just don't like all that screaming crap. If I don't push you away, that should be enough motivation.
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lol, and women have the audacity to bitch about men not putting forth the effort in them emotionally.

Why should they?

If men are physical .. and women are emotional .. and women justify within themselves that real effort isn't worthy physically to connect and will "fake" ... then why can't men "fake" emotionally, also?



:: shakes head ::


Not only are we our own problems .. we are also our own solutions.

A woman who will do this "faking" .. will find men "faking" with them emotionally .. you get what you seek.
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Panacea,

LOL. Better foreplay may help, or possibly better connections. My experience proved to me that the person didn't too much care for me. Knowing that someone is a virgin shouldn't make you try to rip them apart. I haven't been really enthusiastic about reliving that deathly experience.

I have had pelvic exams, lol, I'm a health nut. All is well. Just not a frequently used body part.

And when I say I'm not vocal, it doesn't mean I'm a wet rag. I react. I just don't scream and yell and all that. I'd rather react by moving my body to match my partners. I think me reacting physically is much better than just lying there and screaming a guy's ears off.
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I'll reiterate, since this thread came back up .....


If a woman has to fake an orgasm ...... then not only is the man a lousy lay, the woman is also enabling him to be.

The amount of men out there who look at women for one thing only, is so numerous that it's sickening as it is .... if a woman allows men to continue "using" sex to get their own rocks-off, while ignoring her sexual needs .. then these women are creating MORE men out there who only care about thier own pleasure.