having hot friends

is this a problem for you? do you want to date/bang every attractive person of the gender you prefer if you have a good connection with them?

answering for myself. no, it's not. i have lots of hot friends. most of my friends are very attractive. but i have no desire to date them or sleep with them. for me there's a lot that goes into attraction though and someone being hot is the least of my worries if i want them to be my girlfriend.

some of the things i've seen on this board make me think men may have a harder time with this than women do. cuz there's loads of projections all over the place.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Most of my friends have been male and most of them have been very attractive.



No I didn't bang them or want to bang them.



Many of them wanted to bang me at some point in time, but once they realized that wasn't going to happen, they chilled out.

see this is how i feel about it as well.

you can find someone attractive without being attracted to them.

i do wonder if that's mostly a female thing though.

though it's like this. i think my sister is very pretty but i obviously would never date her or anything creepy like that. it's the same with people who aren't related as well. you're pretty but you're not for sex.

Posted by Arielle83
I have thought dirty things.

Yes I have.

😉

with all of them or only specific ones?

i'm not saying you're never attracted to a friend. i've dated friends. but it's definitely not even a lot let alone most or all.

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Posted by scorched

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Most of my friends have been male and most of them have been very attractive.



No I didn't bang them or want to bang them.



Many of them wanted to bang me at some point in time, but once they realized that wasn't going to happen, they chilled out.

see this is how i feel about it as well.

you can find someone attractive without being attracted to them.

i do wonder if that's mostly a female thing though.

though it's like this. i think my sister is very pretty but i obviously would never date her or anything creepy like that. it's the same with people who aren't related as well. you're pretty but you're not for sex.

What's your Moon, Mars and Ascendant?

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aries moon

scorpio mars

aquarius ascendant

i'm aries and scorpio dominant though. and a taurus sun.

The only problem I ran into as far as having hot female friends is with the s/o lol as far as banging them it only happened once.

I don't befriend potential relationship material (consciously), or do whatever these whippersnappers do with their pals.

Posted by DivaCanLeo
Pale hooves why did you delete that other thread

because it was getting derailed to hell and i was being trolled to death. so i took it down.

as far as this name goes my old name was "scorchedearth"

everyone calls me scorched anyway so i figured i'd just get the name back again.

don't derail this thread CC!

I have a few hot guy friends. They do zero for me sexually..I have good mental/emotional connections with them though