Having Sex vs. Making Love

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nicodemus
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"i think making love is passionate slow sex- you dont need to be in love, but when its sex its the rough fiery sex."

Thats interresting. my girlfriend is a virgo and she is the only person I have been with that actually appreciates this. I feel the same way.

However 😉

I think the definition is going to vary from sign to sign. I can make love to any girl, and I can have sex with any girl. for me it is how I aproach it, the emotions I feel, and it is a lot of time that ability to make love is very self inflicted. For me it is about genuine passion stemming from an intillectual and senual connection.

I also veiw Love very simplistically and ideally. For example, my definition of love is:

A genuine appreciation for another person.

That is all, nothing more, nothing less. It is most pure when it is most simple and least thought of as a possesion.
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a4_gemini
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19 Years500+ PostsGemini

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Having sex: "When there isn't an spirital/emotional attachment envolved with the person, just an lustful urge to get a load off as quick as possible. And when you only see the person to be nothing more, but of "the pussy/dick of the night".This behavior is overly popular with 1 night stands and the relationship between fuck partners."

Making love:"When you love and admire that person inside out and see them to be more than "the fuck of the night", but of EVERY night and as a sex partner AND friend. And of course you are doing the same dance and thrust as if you were "Just having sex",yet you are emotionally/spiritually intuned w/ that person and there sexual moves, needs, and wants."

(BTW: those words came from MY partner....I just typed them.)



....But, yes,alot of people get those terms mixed w/ each other.

(BTW: that came from me!!!)