how do you forget someone?

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I dont mean completely forget them but just not think of them in a romantic sense. im currently in a relationship that isn't going so well with a gemini man, i mean it is going fine because we have alot of fun when we hang out, but i feel that something is missing. we barely play video games together or share feelings/thoughts about each other..it's like we are two strangers/friends who meet once a week to just have sex.

I started to talk to someone on the internet (pisces man) ..he talks to me about everything..he says he's sad and feels alone, I can relate in so many ways. For the past week, I was talking to him everyday through discord..we played games together and talked on the phone until 3 in the morning. He says he really loves me and that i' the closest girl who he made a connection with. Talking about feelings/anything comes so easy with him. we tell each other it feels like you are the one i was looking for



On sunday we stopped talking, he said it felt like we were breaking up. I told him about the boyfriend thing and that we couldn't do this anymore, because it was kind of like cheating. he said it was his fault for making me feel this way and talk to other guys. I asked him why don't we just try two of us.He says to go back to my boyfriend, because he wont be there for me physically (long-distance) and that i will get sad when i alone if things dont work between him and I

i said we met at the wrong time, I heard him crying through the phone..I started to cry too and said i'm sorry for hurting the people around me. He stopped crying and told me that he wil fix it, so i should stop crying.

we only message on skype...whenever i message him i just get one word responses. I'm really sad. he said we should talk to each other less and less, then we will forget each other.

I did tell my bf about what happened and he got angry, but even as i was crying, he decided to stay on the phone with me last night until i slept. my bf is not a bad person, i got in the way of our relationship..i dont really know the next steps. im in alot of pain
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Posted by leooox

I dont mean completely forget them but just not think of them in a romantic sense. im currently in a relationship that isn't going so well with a gemini man, i mean it is going fine because we have alot of fun when we hang out, but i feel that something is missing. we barely play video games together or share feelings/thoughts about each other..it's like we are two strangers/friends who meet once a week to just have sex.

I started to talk to someone on the internet (pisces man) ..he talks to me about everything..he says he's sad and feels alone, I can relate in so many ways. For the past week, I was talking to him everyday through discord..we played games together and talked on the phone until 3 in the morning. He says he really loves me and that i' the closest girl who he made a connection with. Talking about feelings/anything comes so easy with him. we tell each other it feels like you are the one i was looking for



On sunday we stopped talking, he said it felt like we were breaking up. I told him about the boyfriend thing and that we couldn't do this anymore, because it was kind of like cheating. he said it was his fault for making me feel this way and talk to other guys. I asked him why don't we just try two of us.He says to go back to my boyfriend, because he wont be there for me physically (long-distance) and that i will get sad when i alone if things dont work between him and I

i said we met at the wrong time, I heard him crying through the phone..I started to cry too and said i'm sorry for hurting the people around me. He stopped crying and told me that he wil fix it, so i should stop crying.

we only message on skype...whenever i message him i just get one word responses. I'm really sad. he said we should talk to each other less and less, then we will forget each other.

I did tell my bf about what happened and he got angry, but even as i was crying, he decided to stay on the phone with me last night until i slept. my bf is not a bad person, i got in the way of our relationship..i dont really know the next steps. im in alot of pain


"I did tell my bf about what happened and he got angry, but even as i was crying, he decided to stay on the phone with me last night until i slept"

it seems like manipulation, too much crying

you are not happy, thats for sure

when was the last time you were happy?
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Posted by leooox

I dont mean completely forget them but just not think of them in a romantic sense. im currently in a relationship that isn't going so well with a gemini man, i mean it is going fine because we have alot of fun when we hang out, but i feel that something is missing. we barely play video games together or share feelings/thoughts about each other..it's like we are two strangers/friends who meet once a week to just have sex.

I started to talk to someone on the internet (pisces man) ..he talks to me about everything..he says he's sad and feels alone, I can relate in so many ways. For the past week, I was talking to him everyday through discord..we played games together and talked on the phone until 3 in the morning. He says he really loves me and that i' the closest girl who he made a connection with. Talking about feelings/anything comes so easy with him. we tell each other it feels like you are the one i was looking for



On sunday we stopped talking, he said it felt like we were breaking up. I told him about the boyfriend thing and that we couldn't do this anymore, because it was kind of like cheating. he said it was his fault for making me feel this way and talk to other guys. I asked him why don't we just try two of us.He says to go back to my boyfriend, because he wont be there for me physically (long-distance) and that i will get sad when i alone if things dont work between him and I

i said we met at the wrong time, I heard him crying through the phone..I started to cry too and said i'm sorry for hurting the people around me. He stopped crying and told me that he wil fix it, so i should stop crying.

we only message on skype...whenever i message him i just get one word responses. I'm really sad. he said we should talk to each other less and less, then we will forget each other.

I did tell my bf about what happened and he got angry, but even as i was crying, he decided to stay on the phone with me last night until i slept. my bf is not a bad person, i got in the way of our relationship..i dont really know the next steps. im in alot of pain


"I did tell my bf about what happened and he got angry, but even as i was crying, he decided to stay on the phone with me last night until i slept"

it seems like manipulation, too much crying

you are not happy, thats for sure

when was the last time you were happy?
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My bf is a bit passive aggressive, and sometimes i question his intentions. He kept telling me to forget about him..and i should only cry about him etc. He is there with me physically at times, emotionally we're detached. I want to end the relationship but dont know the right way to go about it..he's still been there for me all this time and its hard being alone