Makes sense!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Gemalit on Sunday, October 21, 2018 and has 21 replies.

Understanding Relationship Boundaries and Respect

Cancelling plans last minute often indicates lack of respect or interest. It is important to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly. Ignoring inconsiderate behavior can help you regain control and protect your emotional well-being. Building healthy relationships involves mutual respect and honest communication to avoid being treated as a backup.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

He makes plans with you and then cancels half hour before?! Wtf you are just a back up and he’s toying with you. Tell him to fuck off, seriously. Ext tome he comes around you completely ignore him and will drive him insane. 😆

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by Moonbutter

He makes plans with you and then cancels half hour before?! Wtf you are just a back up and he’s toying with you. Tell him to fuck off, seriously. Ext tome he comes around you completely ignore him and will drive him insane. 😆

To Late..... we’ve been talking non stop for a while now 😅 I need help 😭

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by HeartofTopazz

What are his placements? What was his reason for cancelling?

His excuse was kinda valid, I’d already explained him that I was annoyed and I don’t know his placements besides his sun as I haven’t asked 😅

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by Moonbutter

He makes plans with you and then cancels half hour before?! Wtf you are just a back up and he’s toying with you. Tell him to fuck off, seriously. Ext tome he comes around you completely ignore him and will drive him insane. 😆

To Late..... we’ve been talking non stop for a while now 😅 I need help 😭

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I get it... ok what was his excuse and has he done this before?

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by Moonbutter

He makes plans with you and then cancels half hour before?! Wtf you are just a back up and he’s toying with you. Tell him to fuck off, seriously. Ext tome he comes around you completely ignore him and will drive him insane. 😆

To Late..... we’ve been talking non stop for a while now 😅 I need help 😭

I get it... ok what was his excuse and has he done this before?

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He’s Ill and this is the first time he’s done this, I’d be angry if he’d done it more than once tbh.

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Posted by bkbella86

Girl fuck him.

Who cares if you come off full on to a dick who flakes on you?

He’s beautiful though 😂😭

I love women like this. Good girl. 😉

Stupid girl 😭😩

Your smart to treat yourself and not miss out. Enjoy

Treat herself to what? He won’t even meet her.

You’re savage 😂

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Lmaoo

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by Moonbutter

You guys have been playing this cat & mouse game awhile. I asked my Gem on a date, I think you should grab the bull by the horns before it’s too late.

Thats what i tried when i called him out about his hot and cold approach.

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Moonbutter

You guys have been playing this cat & mouse game awhile. I asked my Gem on a date, I think you should grab the bull by the horns before it’s too late.

I agree! I asked mine out too and the rest is history.

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See this is what I was unsure of as I very rarely continue talking to someone if I don’t like them, only if I’m interested do I give them the time of day, and his actual words In person say one thing but his actions another.

I am beginning to thing “fuck it” to be honest. I think the rest will be history soon, one way or another.

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Posted by Gemalit

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Moonbutter

You guys have been playing this cat & mouse game awhile. I asked my Gem on a date, I think you should grab the bull by the horns before it’s too late.

I agree! I asked mine out too and the rest is history.

See this is what I was unsure of as I very rarely continue talking to someone if I don’t like them, only if I’m interested do I give them the time of day, and his actual words In person say one thing but his actions another.

I am beginning to thing “fuck it” to be honest. I think the rest will be history soon, one way or another.

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I am the exact same way!

If I’m talking to you, entertaining the conversation then I like you. I’m shit at flirting.

I asked him out to a super casual drinks with friends. I have chill friends and I told them what was up so they left after drink 1 and let us vibe solo.

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@Moonbutter
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So when I say “take control” I’m saying take control of your destiny. You want him? Go after him... invite him somewhere(Gems like boldness and women who know what they want) don’t wait on him to make the decision of “will it or won’t it” you make the decision whether you want him and you persist and have patience that it’s a journey. A Gem is not the easiest to obtain, but worth it and highly valuable. Go get your 💎 😉

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@Gemalit
8 Years

Posted by nanobot

I don't at all agree with this. It sounds like you are trying to create excuses for his behavior in your head

I actually agree, I just got confused by his actions as he was very sweet and very into me in person but then complete ignoring me over text. So I went to the internet to help solve it but in reality when someone ignores you they’re not interested and I’ve come to realise that. I can not be bothered with someone that gives of two completely different signals.