Think I'm stupid.

There's nothing wrong with having options..especially if he's been half-arsed in the past. Let him be in control and make him follow through with action.

How can he stay interested if you keep playing games. Let the boy take you out!

Why did u hide your message @Gemalit 😭

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Posted by Moonbutter

Why did u hide your message @Gemalit 😭

Because I realised I sounded bitter 😢😅. The shortened version is the Gemini guy had asked me out again and due to him hurting my pride I was debating on whether or not I should. And how I think I was stupid for even considering it. So I realised I was playing games and took a chance...again and as expected it didn’t even progress.

I’ve been given a little bit of evidence that he’s still involved with that Scorpio.... and now my prides been beaten even more as I was probably a tool used between them so eh... I could be jumping to conclusions though but it seems to make the most sense atm.

Wrong behaviour on his part and something I’ll probably bring up, or won’t... I’m undecided yet.

I hate this... I have such a fragile sense of pride so when it’s wounded it’s something I take it strongly ..but it’s life.

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I see... well yeah, if he’s involved with someone then just let that play out and be supportive but don’t overstep. I’m not familiar with your history with this Gem 🤷🏻‍♀️ How long you guys known each other? Are you just initial steps of dating?

Hmmm... we’ve hung out when friends are around but never alone as he always flakes, I’m more guessing that they’re involved in some way, they had a brief fling in the past and I was told it was over (by her and my friend). So I didn’t intentially mean to be a third party in their spat. (Which I think I have been). Also weve known each other for months now. And like I said we’ve never dated as he always cancels So this gem is done, I don’t like on the side I guess...

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Hmmm... we’ve hung out when friends are around but never alone as he always flakes, I’m more guessing that they’re involved in some way, they had a brief fling in the past and I was told it was over (by her and my friend). So I didn’t intentially mean to be a third party in their spat. (Which I think I have been). Also weve known each other for months now. And like I said we’ve never dated as he always cancels So this gem is done, I don’t like on the side I guess...

Ok, yeah just keep it chill and who knows in the future 🤷🏻‍♀️

You said he looks awesome, so just adore the time spent together. Don't miss out on happiness just because your greedy for more time. You should never not enjoy the finer things in life when opportunity strikes. Enjoy life.

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Hmmm... we’ve hung out when friends are around but never alone as he always flakes, I’m more guessing that they’re involved in some way, they had a brief fling in the past and I was told it was over (by her and my friend). So I didn’t intentially mean to be a third party in their spat. (Which I think I have been). Also weve known each other for months now. And like I said we’ve never dated as he always cancels So this gem is done, I don’t like on the side I guess...

Quitters never prosper. You two are just starting to know each other the for only a few months.

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Posted by Gemalit

Hmmm... we’ve hung out when friends are around but never alone as he always flakes, I’m more guessing that they’re involved in some way, they had a brief fling in the past and I was told it was over (by her and my friend). So I didn’t intentially mean to be a third party in their spat. (Which I think I have been). Also weve known each other for months now. And like I said we’ve never dated as he always cancels So this gem is done, I don’t like on the side I guess...

Quitters never prosper. You two are just starting to know each other the for only a few months.

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Okay let’s call it retreat for now then 😂. I was super tired yesterday and felt bad for myself, we all have out pity party moments? 😂😂

Posted by LibraSupreme

You said he looks awesome, so just adore the time spent together. Don't miss out on happiness just because your greedy for more time. You should never not enjoy the finer things in life when opportunity strikes. Enjoy life.

This is actually quite nice, thank you 😊. I’m quite content just going about my business I guess, maybe I got it all wrong or maybe I got it right? Either way I’m going to just sit back now 😊.