WTH Gemini man?

So... I really have no idea anymore. I’ve pretty much given up on the Gemini guy I like. I mean... I’m not even sure if I like him anymore? I know I find my attractive etc but I’m not giddy when I think of him, as it stands I’m just frustrated.

He’s always at the back of my head when I think about anyone I’m interested in, and I don’t understand why. He gave me signals he was interested and then boom... no more signals. No more talking (on both sides). He went out dating other girls etc (whilst I’m a spinster haha).

I’d share a few things on social media about how gems hate to always start a conversation first and how we lost interest if that’s all we do. Which he’d like... nothing major but made me realise he may already acknowledge the fact? Maybe? And then a couple of days later he messages me! Nothing major just a hey, how’s your life been”. And I swear....this motherfucker ignored my reply....again! I think my prides getting a serious beating right now! I don’t know what’s up with him?!

I’m getting the vibes he’s at least interested and then I get vibes he’s not...Gemini men.... why’re they so...grrrr! 😂

do I need to make it obvious to him I’m interested? Like message him again when he doesn’t reply? I feel like I may be mirroring to much.

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

You both dipping in the toes... just jump in into the cold water already 🤣

Posted by LadyNeptune

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

I’m not quite brave enough to do that yet 😭

Posted by Moonbutter

You both dipping in the toes... just jump in into the cold water already 🤣

I feel like water could either be really nice and warm or really frigid and cold 😭😩. Call me unreasonable but I want him to jump first 😅😂

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by LadyNeptune

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

I’m not quite brave enough to do that yet 😭

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No risk no reward

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by LadyNeptune

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

I’m not quite brave enough to do that yet 😭

No risk no reward

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I know... I’m very indecisive though... he’s my fiends friend and my friend said he’d not be happy if anything happened between us so I’m really cautious to just jump in Yknow?

Posted by nanobot

This sounds like air/fire dominant gemini's problems

Really? I am a Leo moon but I have a lot of earth in my chart rather than fire 🤔. I don’t know his chart though.

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by LadyNeptune

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

I’m not quite brave enough to do that yet 😭

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If your not hot good luck getting anywhere.

Wht would he waste his time with you being so slow when others may be hotter and not placent.Good luck in 2019

Posted by LibraSupreme

Posted by Gemalit

Posted by LadyNeptune

Stop the online messaging and meet up face to face. Ask him out for a drink.

I’m not quite brave enough to do that yet 😭

If your not hot good luck getting anywhere.

Wht would he waste his time with you being so slow when others may be hotter and not placent.Good luck in 2019

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I don’t think anyone’s going to say they’re hot (unless they’re narcissistic) but I have confidence in my looks haha. However I’m “slow” so I’d rather to be liked for my damn slowness than my looks. Also there’s always someone better looking, in the end it is down to personality.

Also some people are a lot more shy due to not persuing romantic relationships early on in life. In fact I was a very late bloomer so I’m a lot like a young girl who’s still learning, don’t be mean because you don’t know anything besides the small snippets of information I gave you.

Your comment was unnecessary.

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Posted by Gemalit

Posted by nanobot

This sounds like air/fire dominant gemini's problems

Really? I am a Leo moon but I have a lot of earth in my chart rather than fire 🤔. I don’t know his chart though.

For sure.. Not having the patience or stability to make something start, being cryptic, back and forth games, etc. Maybe not even having the ability to even know what they want in the first place. I think leo sun gems do well with fixed signs, who ground them. I do notice that air/fire gems are a lot more fleeting in relationships than water/earth gems.

I am an earthy gem and have had no problems settling into very serious, long term rships with 2 watery gemini men. Isn't it odd that I rarely even encounter fire/air dom gemini men? There is a huge difference here, imo.

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I actually need someone very light and ...not grounded. My closest to commitment was with a Capricorn that played constant games with me, I never new where I stood and as a result I put my everything into him...it didn’t work and it set me back which is another cause for my wariness. But I do enjoy a little flirtatious courtship of “are we aren’t we”. That’s what helps to make me realise whether I like someone completely.