How long have you went without....?

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sweethearts
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19 Years5,000+ Posts

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6 months now because there isn't anyone worth it!

But when I was with someone the longest was around 3 months before I slept with them...and the decision was purely i wanted them to wait til I was ready and I wanted to really get to know that person properly first...we married and stayed together 20 years!

I find that if you sleep with a guy too early before getting to know them and visa versa the relationship barely gets off the ground and is over within 3 months...No depth maybe—
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noirecapricornprincess
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16 Years

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4 years-Why? A Number of Reasons.
1. I'm not in a relationship and I don't subscribe to casual sex(just doesn't appeal to us capricorns, lol).
2. So many people running around with diseases these days, so it's BEST to just keep the legs closed until you find the right person you want to be intimate with.
3. Booty calls don't interest me, nor do flings!
4. I need more than just cheap sex.

prior to this the longest I had been without was 2yrs.
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noirecapricornprincess
@noirecapricornprincess
16 Years

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Posted by udgscorp
a few months or a year, probably because my encounters are limited, or I just can't seem to pull it off, or the fact that I have no financial stability. if I did have my shit together(money wise) I figure I would have these spontaneous burst more often and be able to you know, do things with a greater success rate. I heard somewhere that girls = money, anyone have a take on that?



Sounds like to me what you looking for is a Call Girl or working girl (i.e. Hooker). To equate financial stability with you not getting sex is somehow translating to say You BUY SEX or am I wrong?
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ninjamu
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i had sex once with my ex last month and it had been 8 months. i'm not promiscuous. i just don't have it in me. i don't knock others as long as u play safe. i suppose i harbor an irrational fear of catching an STD. especially now with hpv running so rampant (something around 70% of active adults carry some form; the main ones causing cervical cancer and genital warts that condoms don't protect against!). it seriously sucks sometimes because i love sex. i consider myself to have an above average libido but it's never worth the health risks for me. also, i am very female in the fact that, although i don't need to be in love, i do need to establish an emotional connection with my sex partner. i'm also cursed in the fact that although i am physically attracted to a variety of ppl, i am rarely sexually attracted to anyone. yeah, for me, there is a huge difference. such a weirdo...