I was asked today.....

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Chatz on Tuesday, June 2, 2009 and has 7 replies.

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@ramfishtwins
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

Emotions...feelings. For some woman and also some men, they cannot separate sex and feelings. If one party likes the other, then they have sex and it doesn't work out...boom! Relationship is usually over and it's hard to go back to "just being friends" because the other party is hurt.

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@Rays Heart
17 Years1,000+ Posts

" Why sex ruins a relationship/friendship between a man and a woman. "

It takes your connection to a level where the friendship label assigned to yourselves can't hold.

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@USCTaurusGal
18 Years1,000+ Posts

"It takes your connection to a level where the friendship label assigned to yourselves can't hold."

I concur; except I would add one word in between "It" and "takes"- I would add "CAN" πŸ˜‰
Sometimes it can take your connection to another level, but in some rare circumstances, your friendship can stay in tact without incident.

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

yeah, it can take it to a new level for sure. look, men and women think differently. i think everything can work out fine if both parties are completely honest and open to all possibilities. everything should be discussed before getting there. if u both know what ur jumping into then there's no room for the "what ifs". communication is essential in any relationship.