I Want My Libra Dude Back!!! Help Me!!!

I'm really hoping I can get some advice here... I am 29 Cancer and he's a 35 Libra man and I know to start of with we are said to be incompatible. Perhaps true, Perhaps its hopeless but I really have deep feelings for him.

We've been off again, on again for the past 3 years and finally a month ago I decided to put my foot down in order to finally establish some boundaries (also perhaps a little too late)... I just want a normal relationship with him. Damn!! I mean I've met all his friends, he's met mines, we've travelled abroad together, I've met some of his family, and its not unusal for us to spend hours talking on the phone... BUT still, he's just not convinced I'm the one. Furthermore, when I finally put my foot down he said "I wish I had the feelings to settle down with you because life would be sooo perfect. I know you'll find want your looking for." OUCH!!! Right—? So, you'd think all is done... BUT he's still has my furniture (which he promised to drop off that day (and many times thereafter) and still hasn't) and he's still on my membership which he hasn't taken himself off of as yet...

One month later... I hear he was at the barber shop (a little birdie told me) and he stated that he loved my mind but I'm just different...

Do I have any chance—?

Loves your mind, but that you're 'different'. What kind of bullshite reasoning is that? Of course you're different, unique, it's why he keeps gravitating back in your atmosphere. If after 3 years he isn't clear as crystal, he will never be. Your call, but I'd cut it loose.

He doesn't think you are the one. Just let him go and move on.