If a Guy likes me or not ? Confused

Okay so I have this guy in my class who uI have a doubt that he likes me . I have been noticing him for weeks that he stares at me in the class or outside cafeteria and I hadn't reacted at all he sometimes passed a smile and I smiled back too. Tried to talk to me twice or thrice in a group . Last week I got unwell in class wasn't able to breath. h properly he came to me made me sit on his chair opened the window caring for me and then constantly looking over me if I am well or not . I had one of my friend who I told that I have a doubt on him and she was noticing it all . After class he came to me to ask how I was feeling and if he can help me in any way my friend asked him to bring my medicine and he went off right away for my medicine . He brought me medicine after this he asked for my number . In evening I got a text from him asking about how am I feeling I told him I am a lot better now he asked why and what happened I was like nothing its just a stress and all . He said share it if you are comfortable believe me you will feel a lot better well I told him about my past relation and he gave me a long yet very caring and sweet texts. Making me understand how I am not wrong in this ... well after that we had talk couple of times.. I hung out with one of my guy friends and he noticed it ... that day jealousy was evident on his face . I could see it in his eyes . I texted him later that day Hi he didn't replied two days passed we attempted the classes in the same manner I ignored him he didn't replied me either . After two days I texted is something wrong ? He said nah its nothing I have been off for couple of days myself I then tezted him be like you was the one who told me to be strong and now you are acting like me don't be stressed up and all . He said that's so nice of you I am fine intact I am holding up just fine .. don't worry about me .. I don't like people worrying about me .

Okayyy that's weird and confusing too I have Jo idea what's going on . Plus he still talks and sometimes hang out with the girl he used to like before and everybody knows it . I am just too confused and I don't know.what to do I mean showing too much care and stuff and now the way he is acting up . He still looks at me but now he is reserved he looks at me when I am not making an eye contact with him he notices me but makes sure that its not very evident . p.S he is a virgo an i am a capricorn in case you guys want to know this

Lol I am so sorry its just because of my phone key pad sucks .

Even if he is interested why he is doing such things? Like acting up weird he don't want me to be worried about him ? Like why ?

Sounds like the two of you are young. You already answered your own question though. This guy clearly likes you. No guy is going to run errands to get you medicine and talk to you about your problems if he doesn't like you. Just not how we operate. You're also aware that he got jealous when he saw you with a guy friend. You saw it in his face. Guys don't get jealous over girls we don't like...sooo...

Why did he get jealous?

*1. You two are young.

*2. The Capricorn guy talked to you about your problems with a past relationship. He probably was hoping that by doing this he'd get a fast track to your heart (not the best plan, but young guys do this stuff).

*3. He may have even thought that your male friend WAS the guy you had a past relationship with.

So he got jealous, then possibly embarrassed of his own jealousy, and decided to avoid you. He's avoiding you to spare himself any more pain of liking you. He can't read you and just backed off instead. This is also why he's hanging around his former crush.

I don't think it's necessary to get into the astrology side of this since this is pretty simple. If you like him, just go up to him and ask him to hang out. Tell him you noticed he's been avoiding you and you're not sure why. Also tell him you think he's cute. Just be direct.

Posted by Chuckcem
Sounds like the two of you are young. You already answered your own question though. This guy clearly likes you. No guy is going to run errands to get you medicine and talk to you about your problems if he doesn't like you. Just not how we operate. You're also aware that he got jealous when he saw you with a guy friend. You saw it in his face. Guys don't get jealous over girls we don't like...sooo...

Why did he get jealous?

*1. You two are young.

*2. The Capricorn guy talked to you about your problems with a past relationship. He probably was hoping that by doing this he'd get a fast track to your heart (not the best plan, but young guys do this stuff).

*3. He may have even thought that your male friend WAS the guy you had a past relationship with.

So he got jealous, then possibly embarrassed of his own jealousy, and decided to avoid you. He's avoiding you to spare himself any more pain of liking you. He can't read you and just backed off instead. This is also why he's hanging around his former crush.

I don't think it's necessary to get into the astrology side of this since this is pretty simple. If you like him, just go up to him and ask him to hang out. Tell him you noticed he's been avoiding you and you're not sure why. Also tell him you think he's cute. Just be direct.

Yes we are young in our 20's . However I asked him why he had this behavior and he said he has been off for vkuole of days himself and he is holding up fine now. The fact that we haven't talked much face to face and more to texting. I am not going to text him again till he comes and talk to me . Because I don't think texting is the bet option to go for

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Posted by Chuckcem
Sounds like the two of you are young. You already answered your own question though. This guy clearly likes you. No guy is going to run errands to get you medicine and talk to you about your problems if he doesn't like you. Just not how we operate. You're also aware that he got jealous when he saw you with a guy friend. You saw it in his face. Guys don't get jealous over girls we don't like...sooo...

Why did he get jealous?

*1. You two are young.

*2. The Capricorn guy talked to you about your problems with a past relationship. He probably was hoping that by doing this he'd get a fast track to your heart (not the best plan, but young guys do this stuff).

*3. He may have even thought that your male friend WAS the guy you had a past relationship with.

So he got jealous, then possibly embarrassed of his own jealousy, and decided to avoid you. He's avoiding you to spare himself any more pain of liking you. He can't read you and just backed off instead. This is also why he's hanging around his former crush.

I don't think it's necessary to get into the astrology side of this since this is pretty simple. If you like him, just go up to him and ask him to hang out. Tell him you noticed he's been avoiding you and you're not sure why. Also tell him you think he's cute. Just be direct.

Yes we are young in our 20's . However I asked him why he had this behavior and he said he has been off for vkuole of days himself and he is holding up fine now. The fact that we haven't talked much face to face and more to texting. I am not going to text him again till he comes and talk to me . Because I don't think texting is the bet option to go for

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Mmhmmm, also know he's not going to tell you the real reason he's been blowing you off. He's not going to admit he was jealous. Virgos like to be 100% sure about the people they like. If they have any reason to question your intentions, they'll back away.

Pretty sure that's what you're seeing now. It's best to be direct with a Virgo first, then back off if they play hot/cold with you. Some people say to pursue a Virgo persistently until they come around, but I personally believe that chasing someone who is backing away is unhealthy.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Carolz

Posted by Chuckcem
Sounds like the two of you are young. You already answered your own question though. This guy clearly likes you. No guy is going to run errands to get you medicine and talk to you about your problems if he doesn't like you. Just not how we operate. You're also aware that he got jealous when he saw you with a guy friend. You saw it in his face. Guys don't get jealous over girls we don't like...sooo...

Why did he get jealous?

*1. You two are young.

*2. The Capricorn guy talked to you about your problems with a past relationship. He probably was hoping that by doing this he'd get a fast track to your heart (not the best plan, but young guys do this stuff).

*3. He may have even thought that your male friend WAS the guy you had a past relationship with.

So he got jealous, then possibly embarrassed of his own jealousy, and decided to avoid you. He's avoiding you to spare himself any more pain of liking you. He can't read you and just backed off instead. This is also why he's hanging around his former crush.

I don't think it's necessary to get into the astrology side of this since this is pretty simple. If you like him, just go up to him and ask him to hang out. Tell him you noticed he's been avoiding you and you're not sure why. Also tell him you think he's cute. Just be direct.

Yes we are young in our 20's . However I asked him why he had this behavior and he said he has been off for vkuole of days himself and he is holding up fine now. The fact that we haven't talked much face to face and more to texting. I am not going to text him again till he comes and talk to me . Because I don't think texting is the bet option to go for

Mmhmmm, also know he's not going to tell you the real reason he's been blowing you off. He's not going to admit he was jealous. Virgos like to be 100% sure about the people they like. If they have any reason to question your intentions, they'll back away.

Pretty sure that's what you're seeing now. It's best to be direct with a Virgo first, then back off if they play hot/cold with you. Some people say to pursue a Virgo persistently until they come around, but I personally believe that chasing someone who is backing away is unhealthy.

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True . Plus I am pretty clear about it I want a mature guy pretty mature enough to handle a Capricorn . If he is gonna play hot and cold with me I will back off probably that's how a cap's nature works

I didn't read your post.

Talk to him. Go up and say "hi." Ask him how semester is going. Feel things out. Maybe even plan a study date together.

Sounds like the last time you posted here.

Slow learning curve much?

Okay so now as per suggestions i backed off. I was not texting him neither i was. Talking to him as such face to face . Day before yesterday i went to cafeteria witj be of my nale friend and he was standing there . He was looking at me and then suddenly he was like " you dont even talk to me now !why are you doing this " qt first i thought he is just saying it as a joke or something but when our classmate asked him if he wants something to eat he was like wait i ak talking to her i have to talk to her . Then again he again asked trll ke why you did this why yoi dont talk to me . I said ok if ypu felt that then you should have came to me abd talked to me but neither you did . He was no but i didnt expected this from you blah blah. Even after this in the class room he came and sat infront of me And he said to his friend ( in a fun mode) you know what she broke my heart i was like whatt ?? Well this happened and i was like ok i will talk to the guy if he is making an effort .

Yesterday we had an assignment and we had a confusion in it so he told me that he will talk to the teacher and will let me know i was like ok . We came home it was evening i texted him on watsapp he was not online so i texted him on his number asking about the assignment nothing much or extra well he didnt replied after 2 hours he came online and. Texted on our class watsapp group he be like " there is no class tomorrow " and he didnt replied to my text on watsapp . I am in a real conclusion about what this guy wants i mean hennaed a problem when i was ignoring him or backing off and now if li have askes for a simple question he isnt even having some guts to atleast reply. This is insane !!