Sex on the first date!

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, March 22, 2017 and has 39 replies.

Is Having Sex on the First Date Okay According to Astrology

Astrology suggests that timing for intimacy varies by individual and zodiac sign. Some signs are more open to spontaneous sex, while others prefer waiting to build emotional connection. Ultimately, whether to have sex on the first date depends on personal comfort, values, and mutual consent, not just astrological factors.

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@Gemitati
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I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

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@Gemitati
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I am also talking mutual agreement vs one sided withholding...for no particular reason.

How long can you refuse food if it's there and you are hungry! To anorexia?

Please, eat that sandwich!

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati
I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

You have to wait a few minutes atleast after the first date

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You mean after arrival and exchange pleasantries like hello how are you?

That's the thing every decent people will

do'

I am not walking up to you already naked BEFORE I say HI!

I know manners...

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I can have it on first date,if you are extremely hott. I would do anything to grab your panties but in this case

there won't be any more dates or anything serious, I'm gonna just dump you. My Pisces Venus I guess

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati
I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

You have to wait a few minutes atleast after the first date

You mean after arrival and exchange pleasantries like hello how are you?

That's the thing every decent people will

do'

I am not walking up to you already naked BEFORE I say HI!

I know manners...

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Unless your name is Adara Michaels. She's naked when she leaves her hotel room.

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati
I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

You have to wait a few minutes atleast after the first date

You mean after arrival and exchange pleasantries like hello how are you?

That's the thing every decent people will

do'

I am not walking up to you already naked BEFORE I say HI!

I know manners...

Unless your name is Adara Michaels. She's naked when she leaves her hotel room.

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She is older than me!

But her boobs...mine taking vacation!

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Posted by pisceanloves
I can have it on first date,if you are extremely hott. I would do anything to grab your panties but in this case

there won't be any more dates or anything serious, I'm gonna just dump you. My Pisces Venus I guess

So I guess you haven't met your first date man! Keep going. He is waiting.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Lol!!! So do I just go for it with the next man—?

Just send me his credentials!

I didn't know you reading this, Teena!!!

Lol

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Haha. How can I not read it? 😄

And yes, I'll send all the credentials if at all..but I kinda have a feeling it's just gonna happen with the next guy.. Let's see ?

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Had it on first "date" with my Virgo husband. The "date" lasted 4 days straight.

I was fine if I never saw him again. And, thought that I wouldn't. Just to have had that moment... I was in la-la land.

According to all the "aesthetic" posts and comments, observations on his appearance over the years, he's "fine." He's obsessed with me and I'm average.

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Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Lol!!! So do I just go for it with the next man—?

Just send me his credentials!

I didn't know you reading this, Teena!!!

Lol

Haha. How can I not read it? 😄

And yes, I'll send all the credentials if at all..but I kinda have a feeling it's just gonna happen with the next guy.. Let's see ?

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Next guy? Not ANY next guy!!!

I won't talorate it! Lol

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Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by starwars

Posted by Gemitati

Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days ?

well I'd feel the same way if talking about my grandma is all I do n 1st dates

What?

me @ all your posts

So you ya ass of with me without any understanding of what I am saying?

That's smart!

Or is it a trick?

Are you many tricks pony?

Lol

I get ass, am I supposed to be offended or not

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Sober up and see where I said...ass!

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Posted by VenusAquarius
Had it on first "date" with my Virgo husband. The "date" lasted 4 days straight.

I was fine if I never saw him again. And, thought that I wouldn't. Just to have had that moment... I was in la-la land.

According to all the "aesthetic" posts and comments, observations on his appearance over the years, he's "fine." He's obsessed with me and I'm average.

Average? Said who?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Lol!!! So do I just go for it with the next man—?

Just send me his credentials!

I didn't know you reading this, Teena!!!

Lol

Haha. How can I not read it? 😄

And yes, I'll send all the credentials if at all..but I kinda have a feeling it's just gonna happen with the next guy.. Let's see ?

Next guy? Not ANY next guy!!!

I won't talorate it! Lol

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Ofcourse not any guy!! I won't throw all of myself away just for any random idiot ..NO!! What's the point if at all lol 😛

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Posted by pinkbird03
Do you at least ask him if he has stds?? That's my biggest concern with sleeping with someone too soon.

No.

If a condom doesn't take care of it, we're all screwed.

Can you imagine how it was before the invention of condoms? Poor ladies.

But still, they didn't have HIV to deal with.

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Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati
I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

You have to wait a few minutes atleast after the first date

click to expand

What if it wasn't a date?? But it was The first time you met ?

He was drunk, I was sober... He says he wasn't sure if we did or not -_-

I left his house at 1230am realizing what I had done.

In my defense, It was inevitable. I couldn't keep him away and I didn't want to. =/

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Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

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It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by pinkbird03
Do you at least ask him if he has stds?? That's my biggest concern with sleeping with someone too soon.

No.

If a condom doesn't take care of it, we're all screwed.

Can you imagine how it was before the invention of condoms? Poor ladies.

But still, they didn't have HIV to deal with.

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Condoms were invented centuries ago!

They made of real animal skin and too expensive for you bozo!

So... Keep use latex! Or ask your pharmacist!

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

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It's really good...sorry. Never mediocre.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

It's really good...sorry. Never mediocre.

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Never? Lucky you! Lol

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

It's really good...sorry. Never mediocre.

Never? Lucky you! Lol

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Luck? Maybe. Mostly good instincts.

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Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

It's really good...sorry. Never mediocre.

Never? Lucky you! Lol

Luck? Maybe. Mostly good instincts.

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I say good instincts don't always serve..

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Posted by Rindaroo
Well if he really likes you, it doesn't matter. My problem is not doing it on the first date, but trusting whether he's sticking around or not. Cuz I hate that have sex, and then he's nowhere to be found. So how to know how that's going to go? Easier to wait til he's convinced me he wants more than a piece of ass.

He can say anything!

At the end of the day he wants good

Piece of ass! Can you blame him?

Doesn't every men?

So what's the reason to play?

I am a good piece of ass but you'll find out

On 11 date! And what if you are not that good piece of ass for this particular man?

Time wasted!!'

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Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Lol!!! So do I just go for it with the next man—?

Just send me his credentials!

I didn't know you reading this, Teena!!!

Lol

Haha. How can I not read it? 😄

And yes, I'll send all the credentials if at all..but I kinda have a feeling it's just gonna happen with the next guy.. Let's see ?

Next guy? Not ANY next guy!!!

I won't talorate it! Lol

Ofcourse not any guy!! I won't throw all of myself away just for any random idiot ..NO!! What's the point if at all lol 😛

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Do you go on dates with random idiots?

There is your answer! Don't!

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Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Smart! I am married to one I slept on a first date for 23 years!!'

Care to argue?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Teena
Lol!!! So do I just go for it with the next man—?

Just send me his credentials!

I didn't know you reading this, Teena!!!

Lol

Haha. How can I not read it? 😄

And yes, I'll send all the credentials if at all..but I kinda have a feeling it's just gonna happen with the next guy.. Let's see ?

Next guy? Not ANY next guy!!!

I won't talorate it! Lol

Ofcourse not any guy!! I won't throw all of myself away just for any random idiot ..NO!! What's the point if at all lol 😛

Do you go on dates with random idiots?

There is your answer! Don't!

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LOL!! I don't date Gemi...let alone go out with idiots?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by piscesmoon2
Woman that don't want a man to take them seriously have sex on the first date. Simple as that...

Which is why they are no ally single and passed around in social groups until it becomes awkward.

Piscesmoon

Yeah, I'm very independent spirited. I do what I feel like.

Wasn't and still am not thirsting after men. So far, so good. Never been dumped, heart broken, married young, divorced, gave my husband a 2nd chance, ran them streets, boss at work, make a lot of ?...

I like fun and fantasy... Hard to get serious to match up but, hey I'm a Venus dominant, Venus Aquarius...

I think my main appeal, even in my marriage, is that idgaf. Forever the mind fuck, forever a tease.

It sounds like you haven't had good sex forever!

It's really good...sorry. Never mediocre.

Never? Lucky you! Lol

Luck? Maybe. Mostly good instincts.

I say good instincts don't always serve..

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...Or, my simple love of flesh and touch...

....mixed with a little sympathy for the human condition....

...and love of all things pleasure.

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Aerazo

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by Gemitati
I said it before but it keeps popping and it

drives me nuts!

What is all this about when is it ok to have sex? Nino said last night he can wait for months...with swallen balls?

I think I slept with all of my guys on a first date. Why to waste time on walking in the park talking about your grandmother for days to have sex and never meet again? For grandmother story? Well...

From my huge experience first date sex can be last. Or he will call for second date. And then relashionships can start and you do the same thing you did on a first date for a months...but this way you listen to grandma story laying naked satisfied and he can tell anything he wants...he earned my ear time!

So sex or no sex - if you click

- you are couple! If you don't - second date will not make it any different.

You will just clog your brain with useless info about his boss, ex gf, family members etc.

Do you have that much time to

waste? Really?

You have to wait a few minutes atleast after the first date

What if it wasn't a date?? But it was The first time you met ?

He was drunk, I was sober... He says he wasn't sure if we did or not -_-

I left his house at 1230am realizing what I had done.

In my defense, It was inevitable. I couldn't keep him away and I didn't want to. =/

lol I was just teasing your ok ?

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?? lol I know and mine is true story.