Not in a bad way my bf did this to me and I'm trying to figure out why lol
Why do men like to choke women during sex?
Reasons Men Might Choke During Sex
Some men may engage in choking during sex to enhance arousal, increase intimacy, or fulfill specific fantasies. It can also heighten sensations and create a feeling of dominance or submission. However, it is important to prioritize safety and consent to prevent harm. Understanding mutual boundaries ensures a positive experience for both partners.
Same reason women enjoy doing this to men
Gives them a feeling of power & sense of dominance over the unfortunate.
Gives them a feeling of power & sense of dominance over the unfortunate.
Is it a control thing?
Some people like being choked ok, maybe their exes liked it
Posted by Stensco21Not necessarily.
Is it a control thing?
A fetish doesn't have to be about control.
It's pleasurable, a fetish, I like to see his eyes when he does it and it turns me on. It's just a feeling of feeling taken by someone you are very attracted to, fuck me like you mean it!
lol
lol
Posted by TheLibraMudralol ViV
Just roll with it. Let it get fuckin rough.
Can't get you gasping for air with his love making alone so he has to resort to lesser means.
So hot...
A dude choked me once. Claimed PTSD after.. I didn't complain or even mention it.
Everything that came from him was bad. Good intentions but ..
A man kinda shows his intentions in bed.
Everything that came from him was bad. Good intentions but ..
A man kinda shows his intentions in bed.
Posted by AerazoNow THAT I can relate to.
It's pleasurable, a fetish, I like to see his eyes when he does it and it turns me on. It's just a feeling of feeling taken by someone you are very attracted to, fuck me like you mean it!
lol
When are you all going to learn that this user is a total troll?
they thought that'd make you more excited. they are dumb. my ex did that too and I was like wtf and he's like, oh i thought you liked it =.=
Posted by BuffaloBills28Quite often it's the other party who wants to be choked.
lol, I've never done it before.
Haven't developed into a psychopath just yet.
🙂
Posted by lady_chatterleyMARRY ME!Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowHaha! I love that gif
Same reason women enjoy doing this to men
Gives them a feeling of power & sense of dominance over the unfortunate.
That's Martina Hill, Knallerfrauen. Knallerfrauen = kick ass or bad ass women
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I've been looking for the source of it for at least 2 years!!!
Ok so how does this happen? I'd like to know! @_@
Most guys like that choking stuff.. wouldn't say it's controlling , more like fun
Posted by Stensco21Did he mention it before insertion. Or did he just all of a sudden wrap his hands around your neck?
Not in a bad way my bf did this to me and I'm trying to figure out why lol
In my opinion, there needs to be honest and open dialogue about those sort of activities during sex.
I LOVE to be choked during sex, but my Capricorn didn't just up and do it on his own (as seen in this thread - that's a good thing because it's not always appreciated by the woman.) In fact, I brought it up.
Me: "Choke me next time. I want to experience what it feels like."
Him: "I don't know; are you sure?"
Me: "Yes, I trust you and I want to see what it's all about."
Him: "OK."
We haven't looked back since.
We even had one of those dialogues about face slapping, but it did NOT work out as well. Not only did I not like the feeling of being slapped on my face (I believe the face is sacred), but he and I could NOT keep the momentum going after he slapped me because I was initially stunned, despite knowing we were going to do that, AND we both fell out laughing right after he slapped me. BAHAHAHA!
No "ragrets." Good times. 😄
P.S. I see some users classify those of us who like choking as "sick" or whatnot. I wear my FREAK Badge PROUDLY. In the bedroom, it's all about inhibitions between US. Fuc k societal judgements and restraints. ✊? #FreakyWoman #NastyWoman
I LOVE to be choked during sex, but my Capricorn didn't just up and do it on his own (as seen in this thread - that's a good thing because it's not always appreciated by the woman.) In fact, I brought it up.
Me: "Choke me next time. I want to experience what it feels like."
Him: "I don't know; are you sure?"
Me: "Yes, I trust you and I want to see what it's all about."
Him: "OK."
We haven't looked back since.
We even had one of those dialogues about face slapping, but it did NOT work out as well. Not only did I not like the feeling of being slapped on my face (I believe the face is sacred), but he and I could NOT keep the momentum going after he slapped me because I was initially stunned, despite knowing we were going to do that, AND we both fell out laughing right after he slapped me. BAHAHAHA!
No "ragrets." Good times. 😄
P.S. I see some users classify those of us who like choking as "sick" or whatnot. I wear my FREAK Badge PROUDLY. In the bedroom, it's all about inhibitions between US. Fuc k societal judgements and restraints. ✊? #FreakyWoman #NastyWoman
Posted by HareWhat you mean lol
Because they owe money.
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