I would love for someone to tell me how to approach this man. He is everything I have always wanted in a man, but he has had bad relationships in the past. These women have broke his heart and made it so that he cannot trust anymore. His self esteem is so low, but he is so wonderful. I don't know what to do. I don't want to scare him off. I feel kind of stuck, but if there is a way I can get closer, I will work as hard as I need to. Any suggestions?
i have an Aries dad, and all i can say is that Aries men seem to like those who have the same characteristics as their mother. and although this is usually psychologically true for most men, it is especially true for the Aries man. as the first sign of the zodiac, they are very childish -- someone who wants a lot of aggressive action, yet also a lot of mothering care. however, that causes them to also fall in and out of love pretty quickly, although they can be really devoted IF you're the right person for them.
so yeah, don't try to force yourself to act a certain way for them, becuz it's not good to have a cover-up and then surprise them (or anyone sign, for the matter) somewhere along the way (i would know becuz my mom kinda did that).
but anyway.. good luck, exoticfish, and just try to be natural with your Aries guy. just be yourself and see where this leads.
however, if you're just trying to reassure him a little becuz of his heart-breaking past, then just be the sweet, little piscean that you are, and i'm sure that would show him that you have tender abilities inside of you
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38 years old female from Washington, DC
Also, exoticfish, keep in mind that it takes two to make a relationship work and to make a relationship fail in the end. He might have been heartbroken, but I'm sure he is somewhat responsible for his own heartache. I'm not trying to be negative...just don't go into things thinking he's a poor soul. We all have skeletons.