Is it ok to tell you sexual fantasies to strangers

ONLINE?

*your

Why was this topic taken down?

It could be helpful to others...

Gemi9 is doing that topic. Right..only maybe she didn't met someone online but rather off the streets. Same kind of reply I gave her. Dangerous.

I know, she deleted the topic --

Posted by blackphase
I don't see why it wouldn't be okay.. If you don't have a significant other to discuss that with, then sometimes you feel the need to discuss it with others, even if there is no intent to live such fantasies out with them.

I don't disagree with that at all. There was mention on another thread that feelings were hurt when threesomes were mentioned.

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
Lol

Probably because I asked about her husband being okay with her continuously cheating.

Hit close to home?

OH hahaha that's why she deleted it... ok got it.

Posted by tiziani
Why wouldn't it be?

PMs are good then?

Yeah I saw that. Lol.. oh well still wrong either way. Just break up..and then be in an open relationship forever. Cause I not down for threesomes or anything that involves cheating. Dxp is a cheating forum..type.

This thread is a continuation from another thread where the OP took offense to someone's fantasies that were shared to her. Her feelings were hurt.

It's like they need approval..from dxp people..

Posted by tiziani
I just spoke with DMV about fantasizing doing for myself something that she lived out in real life in another thread.

No PMs were involved. No one died. We can all have adult discussion imo.

Didn't you tell her to stay away from PMs on DXP?

😉

Posted by starlover
If you don't mind having blokes jerking off whilst talking to you...go ahead

May as well get a sex phone job though and get some dosh for it 😛

Great advice 😄

I hope the previous poster is reading this...

What is troubling is how people think because they are sharing (a lot) of themselves with someone online, it's a solid base for a relationship. What do they call that... oh yeah catfishing

Posted by Arielle83
Do ppl actually use this site as a dating thing?

I've heard of people meeting others in person here, yes.

Posted by Arielle83
The men are trolly. A large majority of them. That's why I'm surprised there are women who might see then in a different light than me.

Yes, very surprising but some men know what "some" women want to hear (read) and they fall for it.

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Posted by aquapiscescusp
What is troubling is how people think because they are sharing (a lot) of themselves with someone online, it's a solid base for a relationship. What do they call that... oh yeah catfishing

God, i heard one of the worst catfish stories for a long time...happened to a friend of mine..may put up a thread on it...wow!

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Do tell 🙂

Posted by e11e
I've seen more female dxper catfish stories play out on here than I have men (being the catfish).

I'm not really responding to anyone....I'm just mindlessly responding 😛

I think this thread started off being about gemi9 again and I really have not a clue what the real topic is about.

Feel free to express yourself on my thread the way you want 🙂

Yes it did stem from Gemi9's thread. The OP described a scenario where she was talking with someone for days or weeks and he started talking to her about his fantasies. They never met. She was hurt that he mentioned threesomes to her. She cared for him.

We all told her to be careful but then someone mentioned her husband and she deleted.

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Posted by starlover
I heard that some people on here show each other their genitals in chat lol, isnt that the saddest thing to have to resort to? Reminds me of when i was 5yrs and my neighbour Billy asked me to show him mine, and he would show me his

Lol
haha

Both times I'm aware of that happening it was done for non secual reasons.

This coming just a week after you yourself said womem should be free to show their breasts naturalky without being sexualised.

Now you see that a woman in chat who showed other women her body has to face gossip like this perpetuated by yourself where you try and put a sexual slant on it.

That's irony.

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just curious -- it it wasn't sexual (or secual), what was it?

Posted by e11e

Posted by aquapiscescusp

Posted by e11e
I've seen more female dxper catfish stories play out on here than I have men (being the catfish).

I'm not really responding to anyone....I'm just mindlessly responding 😛

I think this thread started off being about gemi9 again and I really have not a clue what the real topic is about.

Feel free to express yourself on my thread the way you want 🙂

Yes it did stem from Gemi9's thread. The OP described a scenario where she was talking with someone for days or weeks and he started talking to her about his fantasies. They never met. She was hurt that he mentioned threesomes to her. She cared for him.

I wonder if it was her husband catfishing her? 😛

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LOLOLOL

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Posted by Arielle83
In the case of breast feeding, yes they shouldn't be sexualised.

As well as on a topless beach. However, there would be so many to look at that it would be hard to specifically focus and sexualise one pair.

I find exposing anything below the belt completely sexual and desperate. It's showing where they can rub uglies in the future. It's an invitation.

I accidentally wandered onto a nude beach once. I was so embarrassed. It was weird being the only one clothed.

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I didn't accidentally wander on one, I tried it... hell why not?

Posted by Gemi9

Posted by aquapiscescusp
We all told her to be careful but then someone mentioned her husband and she deleted.

No I had deleted for totally different reason.
But you guys found it fascinating enough to resurrect?
WOW! I have a gift!

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no, not fascinating, it's annoying when you share your ideas on a thread and it gets deleted...

Oh you're back. So what did you come up with, why did you delete ?

Haha

Posted by starlover
Why is this thread in the *relationship* forum

Sign of the times maybe?

*I am having a relationship with an online stranger*?

Good point. It's definitely not a good sign. Having a relationship online with a stranger equals to having a relationship with yourself?

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Posted by starlover
Why is this thread in the *relationship* forum

Sign of the times maybe?

*I am having a relationship with an online stranger*?

Good point. It's definitely not a good sign. Having a relationship online with a stranger equals to having a relationship with yourself?

A friend of mine just discovered the man she was having an online affair with has lied to her about everthing, his name, family,work and .......gender....he is a she 😱

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Gender too? They never spoke on the phone, Skype?

Wow see that is some crazy shit..

I had a Scorpio guy tell me he was single and next thing I know his wife is calling me asking me all kinds of stuff? I said sorry I don't do drama and he said he was single...She asked me how I met him I said online. OHH no someone is in trouble but not me. I hate drama though.. smh

Posted by starlover
They never spoke on the phone....only by messages. It happens quite a lot if you watch the Catfish show...

Seriously crazy. I'm convinced these people don't want the truth deep down.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Wow see that is some crazy shit..

I had a Scorpio guy tell me he was single and next thing I know his wife is calling me asking me all kinds of stuff? I said sorry I don't do drama and he said he was single...She asked me how I met him I said online. OHH no someone is in trouble but not me. I hate drama though.. smh

How did the wife find out?

Posted by starlover
Can you imagine if a bloke was doing the sexual fantasy exchange stuff and the other person was a big hairy biker and the guy communicating with him thought he was a sexy blonde *her*

😆

fecked up

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but is imaginining THIS:

Idk going through his phone although I sent a pic to him in a nice outfit. I didn't ask, never spoke again..I just apologized, she was pissed. I was just shocked and pissed as much as she was. I don't play games. I asked the initial questions and still get lied too.

I meet people at work, say the same shit. I'm single but all of a sudden your married.

So both experiences can happen irl and online, both are messed up..

wow, this thread ensued some interesting PMs LOL

Posted by Huldra

Posted by aquapiscescusp
wow, this thread ensued some interesting PMs LOL

I had to delete my other one with similar topic, before it turned into a whine with cheese party. Some people just can't handle this stuff, must have had sensitive experiences. Haha

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Haha what was the topic?

Posted by Gemi9

Posted by aquapiscescusp
wow, this thread ensued some interesting PMs LOL

So you are PMsing a lot?

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Wait, so the guy you were talking about is from dxp?