Is this guy using/playing with me—

I met this guy online towards the end of January (2012). We started talking and texting eachother and it seemed he was really into me. At the beginning, he would text me "Good morning sweetheart🙂" every day and we'd talk for an hour or more. Then the good morning texts kinda ended with left me bummed. Oh, and also, once we got to the point of texting each other, we would also sext at night (midnight-ish) and he'd always fall asleep on me and then he only apologized once or twice for doing that.

At one point I even asked him if he only wanted sex and he said no, that he really liked me and wanted to meet me and stuff. We also discussed the fact that I'm a virgin and he said he was fine with that (he's not a virgin).

Well the thing is, about 3 weeks ago, the texts and calls abrutly ended. Like, I had no communication with him at all. I even texted him twice asking if everything was okay but got no reply. Until last night... I randomly got a text from him saying "I'm so sorry my phone broke". He asked me how I was, what was new, all that stuff. When I told him I thought he didn't want to talk anymore, he said no way, that he missed me a lot and that he was very sorry.

This morning I texted him "good morning(:" and got nothing for the whole day. Its almost 11pm. I don't know, maybe he's busy? He does work at a major oil drilling place, but still, can't he make time just to text me hello or something?

He this just playing with me? I finally had forgotten about him but then he comes back outta nowhere only to leave me again? 😭

Also, he's 22 and I'm 20. And I know he is who he says he is 100% .

I saw the title, entered, saw the OP was long and then scrolled down to see who responded before going back up and reading it.

I see that it was you who was the second poster, and read the below.

You've already decided he is who he says he is 100% .... so how do you justify the title of this thread in asking if he's playing you, using you?

Posted by caligal2010

And I know he is who he says he is 100% .

Sounds like another case of .... it doesn't matter who he is, or what he does ... you have a void to fill and you will attempt to twist any attention you get from a guy to fit it into the hole of your hungry heart.

yes he's playing with you, the lost phone is an old but very common excuse, move on - learn your lesson and don't form fantasy relationships with digital people in the future. And "sexting" a complete stranger...

This happened to me few months ago. The stupid thing I did was go with the flow and had sex with the guy I was seeing. We had a good time and the sex was great than he when poof. I learned from my mistake and decided to move on. I think you should move on and I'm sure you will find someone better. Goodluck and dont let this asshole take advantage of you!