It's Getting Worse...

I was out at the bars this weekend seeing friends and catching up. (Good thing considering the crap news I got yesterday)
Anyhow, the same incidents kept happening at 5 different bars I went to.

What incidents am I talking about? Single women approaching married/taken men while their significant others step away. Only later on the SO somehow finds out about the woman approaching. She proceeds to go on the warpath unleashing a can of whoop-ass. Cops get called or they all are thrown out. I am surprised this happened at every bar I went to.

What the hell is going on? I've heard some single women rationalize that a man being married shows hes willing to commit. Unlike in their words "the players" in past dating experiences. But how does that make a dude relationship material if he's cheating on his SO with you?

Be fair I've seen a lot of single men hook up with Married/taken women. But they were doing it more out of desperation aka (have trouble getting single girls) then the "challenge so to speak. It was usually the men were approached by the gals then the other way around. I have seen guys actively approach women knowing they were married. But again, its not that common, unlike the taken ones approaching which is more.

If the women successfully homewreck, then they are actually surprised when it happens to them. Throughout the decades, theres always been cases of single women chasing married men. But right now, it seems to be the worst time period.

I dont just see this behavior happen in bars either. I saw the kind of thing happen in my last two permanent jobs. There were attractive single women openly campaigning to get the married co-workers.

If you put a guy with his wife in a bar and a dude who looks like Bradley Cooper or Zac Efron, its guaranteed the married one will get all the single girl's attention.

What do you all think is going on here? Is chasing married men really just a challenge to validate a womans ego? Or do you really feel they are that delusional in thinking a married man is more relationship material then a single one?

At this point I think our generation is making the 70's Me one look Disney by comparison.

I don't know. I personally don't actively pursue taken men. In fact, I try to keep a healthy distance. I am touchy-feely by nature and if I know a man is with someone else, even if he is a notorious cheater, I keep the touching to a minimum and only something like a touch on the arm (which is my way of saying "hi" or "you're cool" to anyone).

I don't understand it myself. I hear of this phenomenon all the time. I have no interest in wrecking anyone's home and I am perfectly capable of getting someone who is unattached. Them being taken is almost a turn-off for someone like me. It means I wouldn't be his #1 lady! heh.