Leaving pictures up

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Lucidlibra1 on Sunday, December 20, 2015 and has 11 replies.

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@Lucidlibra1
10 Years

Me and my ex broke up a month ago(he dumped me) and haven't been in contact for 2 weeks. Recently I unfollowed him off of all social media and he recently unfollowed me back off of only 1 site (I unfollowed him from everything) but he has yet to delete pictures of me and us. I suspect he's been dealing with a coworker of his. Any ideas of why he might not have deleted them? Not trying to hold on to false hope but it is confusing to me

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@HappyCapper
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Personally, I don't delete anything after a break-up, so I don't find that strange at all. I just think we handle things differently and that is his way of dealing with this.

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@Lucidlibra1
10 Years

I totally understand that and I haven't deleted pics of him from my phone so I get it but if he's seeing other people wouldn't he want to delete them? He's the one who wanted to break up and wasn't willing to work things out. (He did tell me he wasn't seeing or talking to anyone the last time we spoke but I don't really believe it)

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@Lucidlibra1
10 Years

Part of me kind of wants him to delete them just so I can lose any false hope I have of him changing his mind but it is his page and I would never ask him to do so. I'm just having a hard time understanding how leaving them up would help him deal with things

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@RamOfPeace
10 Years1,000+ Posts

My ex Libra hoards all my shit and still keeps all pics of me and us to this day, and gets off to them on a regular basis. I wanted to get back together this past summer after a year of silence between us, but it seems that "only unfulfilled love can be romantic".

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@RamOfPeace
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by elllesque
Posted by RamOfPeace
My ex Libra hoards all my shit and still keeps all pics of me and us to this day, and gets off to them on a regular basis. I wanted to get back together this past summer after a year of silence between us, but it seems that "only unfulfilled love can be romantic".

some actually enjoy this more than the relationship.

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I thought I did. But then again, I always think the wrong thing at first #GeminiMoon

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by RamOfPeace
My ex Libra hoards all my shit and still keeps all pics of me and us to this day, and gets off to them on a regular basis. I wanted to get back together this past summer after a year of silence between us, but it seems that "only unfulfilled love can be romantic".

lolz

My Libra ex tended to keep all sorts of random shit from his exes too, including mine.