Beautifulleonat
@Beautifulleonat
8 Years
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Leo Woman
If he's not attractive to you why choose him for a fwb? I'm not following that logic...
Sounds like he is giving you a dose of your own medicine. What I can't deduce is if he is acting this way on purpose or by happenstance?
Did you ever stop to think about how he felt when you ghosting on him EIGHT years ago? Imagine if someone did that to you. Now imagine that in your mind you thought to yourself, "The next time I see this person...things will be different..." Imagine you decide to get back at the person by making them feel just as bad as they made you feel all of those years ago. If he's treating you like this on purpose, it's probably to even the score.
If it's happenstance, then there's also a strong likelihood that he's no longer THAT into you. People want what we can't have. So when a person is dumped or has someone ghost on them, they can become obsessed with the IDEA of what they lost (of what could have been). However now you are back, he may be underwhelmed by you. After 8 years, he probably realized that the fantasy he built up in his head about you does not match with reality. Having you back may be all that he needed to get over you.
You're also assuming that he's in the same position he was when you ghosted 8 years ago. He may have improved his social skills, started a better career, and received way more attention from the opposite sex. He may still like you, but you may not be at the top of his list as you have assumed. Why? Probably because he can't trust you and he knows it. However he's not above keeping you around in the event something may develops.
For now you're just going to have to wait until he hits you back. Virgos like their partner's to be consistent and you already have proven you can be very inconsistent. When he does contact you, you're going to need to be straight forward communicate with him.
Did you ever stop to think about how he felt when you ghosting on him EIGHT years ago? Imagine if someone did that to you. Now imagine that in your mind you thought to yourself, "The next time I see this person...things will be different..." Imagine you decide to get back at the person by making them feel just as bad as they made you feel all of those years ago. If he's treating you like this on purpose, it's probably to even the score.
If it's happenstance, then there's also a strong likelihood that he's no longer THAT into you. People want what we can't have. So when a person is dumped or has someone ghost on them, they can become obsessed with the IDEA of what they lost (of what could have been). However now you are back, he may be underwhelmed by you. After 8 years, he probably realized that the fantasy he built up in his head about you does not match with reality. Having you back may be all that he needed to get over you.
You're also assuming that he's in the same position he was when you ghosted 8 years ago. He may have improved his social skills, started a better career, and received way more attention from the opposite sex. He may still like you, but you may not be at the top of his list as you have assumed. Why? Probably because he can't trust you and he knows it. However he's not above keeping you around in the event something may develops.
For now you're just going to have to wait until he hits you back. Virgos like their partner's to be consistent and you already have proven you can be very inconsistent. When he does contact you, you're going to need to be straight forward communicate with him.
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