Looking for that special someone

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sweethearts
@sweethearts
19 Years5,000+ Posts

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I decided last year that I was finally ready to meet someone special and put it out to the universe...



In the last 5 months these are the men I have met...

I met Mr Pisces through a friend at a social event, we went out 4 times... he ghosted me 😢

Mr Cancer was the local butcher and asked me out...turned out he had a gf and I only found that out because he sent me a text that was meant for her. Fortunately, we hadn't gone out on that date, only texting each other for a couple of weeks. 😢

Met a guy on his bucks night that wanted a last fling :/ 😢



Mr Aquarius, I met through a mutual friend at a sporting event and from out of town. He assumed that my friendliness was me interested even though he was married and his parting message was, I wish things were different but not meant to be? (I had no contact with him except in person twice in group conversations with his friends) So not sure why he thought I was even remotely interested?

^^^^ Is this the norm?? ^^^^^



I don't do online dating, I'm not comfortable with it and prefer to meet someone in person or by chance.

A few of my friends and I are single and we are very social, so there is plenty of opportunity to meet new people and we go to loads of different venues/events.

Am I going to be on my own forever, with this lot it feels like it! Do you think you can WILL someone into your life? Because, It would be nice to have someone around, my last relationship was 5 years ago and I feel ready and open so how do you go about it?

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_Srkastik
@_Srkastik
8 Years

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Yes, it can be done!

Went through a bad break up in 2016 and went through all the trials. Changed my perspective then when I was truly ready to let go of the old and be open to the new, I asked the universe specifically what I wanted/needed in a partner and in a couple to a few months time met someone who was exactly what I was looking for.

You can't fake vibes/energy. You have to be ready consciously and subconsciously.