Would you attend your exes wedding?

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Stargurl on Monday, February 26, 2018 and has 23 replies.

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@Stargurl
9 Years

Exactly !

A lot of people wouldn’t though, why?

Do you think you still have feelings or the way you lot went about the break up?

I’m curious .

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@Stargurl
9 Years

Posted by nano
It depends on the ex. I wish the best for my Gemini ex and would absolutely go to his wedding.

My aqua ex, never. Not that he would ever invite me 😂

Exactly if I’m friends with the ex then yeah

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@hippiecrite
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Are they providing dinner? Can I take home a center piece?

In all seriousness, I don’t see the issue. Like others have said, exes and friends don’t have to be mutually exclusive. Sometimes it’s more of a venn diagram.

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@PayMeek_NoMind
9 Years

I can't think of one ex outside of my kids dad who's wedding I would actually go to if I got the invite. I just can't see me being that cool with my ex I've never dumped a dude and still wanted much to do with him after.

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@Pandora101
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Stargurl
If you got invited to your exes wedding , would you attend the wedding?

it depends on the circumstances and the definition of "exes"

some "exes" here are not really exes

if you know this "ex" all your life (neighbours or similar), or you gone to the same high-school - university, and have an extended mutual friends-circle and they are all invited AND most importantly, you and he and his future wife are friendly and indifferent (no jealousy), then maybe I would attend - if I consider him as a friend, not an "ex"

the main thing is not you and your feelings, not his feelings, but the bride´s feelings

go if you have mutual friends and at least once you met the bride and acted friendly..... dont go, if you still think of that man as your "ex"

Edit: go only, if you are totally indifferent to the ex and his wife, AND the husband-to-be is totally indifferent towards you, and the wife-to-be is okey with you

otherwise, you are going to that wedding to show off, which is wrong

if you have any feelings to that "ex" dont go. If you dont feel like cherish their commitment, dont go.

If you have still feelings, and he invites you, he is an idiot, who never understood you and its an insult 🙂

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@HarleyTwinFlame
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Hell no they are all still fuck able tbh except my first bf back in high school lol

I may not want them but shit.. my venus is in scorpio I can't guarantee I won't be jealous or at least petty as hell

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

No, and I wasn’t invited but wouldn’t have gone if I was. His wife and I get along fine when we see each other around my adult daughters and their little girl. He and I are all good too but this is their new life together and no place for me unless it is about our children. That is the only time we are all together.