@Libranebulagirl
8 Years
When they want you back
Booty call
He's a headache and a waste of time.
It's not worth wondering if he's just going to be like that.
Posted by LibraMudra
It means don't pay attention to any of this bullshit. If he wanted to talk, he would reach out to you.
He tried to reach out to me recently to talk after I just left it alone. First he tried in person, waited up for me after work but another friend showed up. Then he texted me later that night trying to meet the next day at work (we work together)but I had opposite schedules and he was going out of town.
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please help
Is he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
Posted by Dolluxxe
Booty call
He knows I wouldn't be down for this so I don't see this being it.
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
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He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
Posted by LibraMudra
It means don't pay attention to any of this bullshit. If he wanted to talk, he would reach out to you.He tried to reach out to me recently to talk after I just left it alone. First he tried in person, waited up for me after work but another friend showed up. Then he texted me later that night trying to meet the next day at work (we work together)but I had opposite schedules and he was going out of town.
So what do you want? Do you want to talk to him? He could be texting to figure out a better time. You could too.
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I'm just really confused about his intentions so I'm scared. I just wanted insight before going into it because I know it needs to happen regardless. He apparently thinks I don't want to talk anymore so that's probably why he's not. I'm not because I'm not investing more energy or committing more time to get blown off again so I figure he'll find me this time
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
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I mean pisces can be pu**y lol
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
I mean pisces can be pu**y lol
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True. He only admitted he had feelings for me in the beginning after I told him I liked someone else because I had NO idea how he felt about me. *facepalm*
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
I mean pisces can be pu**y lol
True. He only admitted he had feelings for me in the beginning after I told him I liked someone else because I had NO idea how he felt about me. *facepalm*
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I have a Pisces friend who's in love with her friend and he knows nothing lmao. She's wayyy too scared to even insinuate. Soooo hmm that makes sense. You have to like come out and directly ask the fool. Is it worth it though?
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
I mean pisces can be pu**y lol
True. He only admitted he had feelings for me in the beginning after I told him I liked someone else because I had NO idea how he felt about me. *facepalm*
I have a Pisces friend who's in love with her friend and he knows nothing lmao. She's wayyy too scared to even insinuate. Soooo hmm that makes sense. You have to like come out and directly ask the fool. Is it worth it though?
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I still care for him but I don't know if it's worth it anymore. He kind of gave up on me because things got overwhelming for him. I'm not willing to be with someone who won't do the work it takes to communicate and be in a relationship.
Posted by Libranebulagirl
Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please helpIs he a Sag cuz I know one who does this lol. And they actually like the person they do this to lol
He's a Pisces :/ everyone around me that knows us both swears he's crazy about me smh
I mean pisces can be pu**y lol
True. He only admitted he had feelings for me in the beginning after I told him I liked someone else because I had NO idea how he felt about me. *facepalm*
I have a Pisces friend who's in love with her friend and he knows nothing lmao. She's wayyy too scared to even insinuate. Soooo hmm that makes sense. You have to like come out and directly ask the fool. Is it worth it though?
I still care for him but I don't know if it's worth it anymore. He kind of gave up on me because things got overwhelming for him. I'm not willing to be with someone who won't do the work it takes to communicate and be in a relationship.
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Exactly. So eff it. Let him play this game all by himself. What you gonna do with a pu**y a** man? Lol
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Ex keeps telling everyone he wants me back and sending mixed signals that tell me he wants me. But won't tell me anything. He told my friends he wants me back and doesn't want to see me with anyone else, but the week before blew me off when I tried to schedule us talking and clearing things up. Then he made an attempt to talk but someone else showed up so we couldn't. And a mutual friend told me he blew me off bc he's scared I'm going to tell him to leave me alone. But the week before I was so upset he didn't want to talk that I decided I shouldn't talk to him. What does all of this mean? Is he just trying to string me along bc he's lonely? Please help